tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657597345223023142024-03-05T08:27:42.926+02:00LoveDoyen | Relationship Education 101Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-90848917526840437762021-03-15T08:37:00.000+02:002021-03-15T08:37:07.661+02:005 Attractive Traits for Becoming a Real Man<p>Are you happy with your love life? Are you trying to improve on it or you just reap rejection after rejection from women, and you wonder what you're actually doing wrong? If this is the case, it could just be that women reject you because they don't think you are manly enough.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh88qBtzNY4lkdJkI3GTuAsqRu5dvlcdmk0AgfWMBU0WjncTFHTC2OBSXnpyEmoF4C5s00ccDzhFOTGBAJRXk733IF9V25ORyaikopoKKt6FG-FzX0qFtTk2tQgkcgk7UuGMDHaAsGeuVe-/s1400/de.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1400" data-original-width="1200" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh88qBtzNY4lkdJkI3GTuAsqRu5dvlcdmk0AgfWMBU0WjncTFHTC2OBSXnpyEmoF4C5s00ccDzhFOTGBAJRXk733IF9V25ORyaikopoKKt6FG-FzX0qFtTk2tQgkcgk7UuGMDHaAsGeuVe-/s320/de.jpg" /></a></div><p>If a woman is into men, she will probably be looking for a real man. Probably there are simply some masculine traits that you don't naturally possess, which make women prefer another man to you, leaving you alone night after night.</p><p>In this article, I will try to show you how to overcome these challenges by giving you 5 bulletproof traits that will transform you into a real man.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Habit 1: Confidence</h4><p>If you have to get down to the core of picking up a woman, it actually comes down to conviction. You need to convince a woman that you are worthwhile, and that she is, therefore, more than happy to spend more time with you. Basically, it is a form of selling, where you are both the seller and the product.</p><p>As any successful salesperson will tell you, is that you must believe in the product you sell, or you should at least seem as if you believe in this product. If a potential customer can already see that the salesperson himself is not actually behind his sales pitch, why would that customer believe that sales pitch? </p><p>This principle also applies when it comes to flirting. If you want to convince a woman that you are worth it, then you had better show some confidence. If she can see from you that you don't consider yourself worthwhile, she will soon stop taking you seriously.</p><p></p><blockquote>"You don't buy an apple from the greengrocer if he looks at that apple with a dirty face."</blockquote><p></p><p>That is of course very easy to say, but self-confidence is not something you can just decide you have. If you don't really have that much confidence in yourself at all, you can't simply decide to have a more positive opinion of yourself, because that's just not how opinions work.</p><p>It is possible to work on your self-confidence. You can do this, for example, by challenging yourself more. If you can overcome things that you have always feared and were afraid to do, then you will end up with a more positive image of yourself. You can then also radiate that image to others. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-develop-unshakable-confidence-on.html">How to gain confidence with women</a>]</p><p>If you really have more serious self-image issues, then therapy might be a solution. I know a lot of men think of therapy as something crazy, and something they will absolutely never need. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you now manage to swallow your pride, and ultimately end up with a positive self-image, then you really will not regret it afterward! In my opinion, that jump is more than worth it.</p><p>Incidentally, radiating self-confidence is very different from having self-confidence. By standing and walking, and taking the initiative when it comes to starting conversations, you will already radiate a lot of confidence, even if you may not have that confidence deep down. You may even retain some extra self-confidence here; that would of course be doubly nice! </p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Feature 2: Style</h4><p>You may think of style as something you simply have or don't have, and not something you can learn. If you think so, I can tell you that it is nonsense. In fact, style is very subjective, so there is no one way to do this right or wrong. There will always be people who love a certain style, while others hate it.</p><p>The only thing you can actually do wrong not having a style at all. Style is seen as a reflection of your personality (by women, but unconsciously also by men). If you only make safe choices (jeans, black shirt without print, standard haircut), then you actually show that you have no personality or at least a very boring personality.</p><p></p><blockquote>"You can only make a good first impression once."</blockquote><p></p><p>Obviously, this is not something very attractive, so you should avoid it. You have to choose a style, and dare to make a pronounced choice every now and then. You don't have to suddenly walk into the pub wearing a purple cowboy hat and a red royal coat, but at least make sure that you don't look exactly the same as all the other men.</p><p>Of course, fashion may just not be your cup of tea, and that's fine. You really won't be alone, especially as a man. In that case, it is better to steal well than badly conceived. When you see another guy who you think is well dressed, don't be afraid to just steal a bit of his style. Others may not know whether you have collected everything yourself or not. </p><p>If you really can't figure it out the best style for you, then always ask the women in your life for advice. No one knows better what women find attractive than other women, so if your sister or a friend gives you advice on what to wear, it really doesn't hurt to take that advice (or ask about it yourself !). [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/why-women-lose-interest-in-nice-guys.html">Why women lose interest with nice guys</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Habit 3: Humor</h4><p>When it comes to love, there are quite a few differences between men and women when it comes to what matters to them. Of course, this is all a bit of a generalization, and there are certainly exceptions to the rules, but in general, men are more interested in physical features than women. This often leads them to make wrong choices when flirting.</p><p>For example, humor is something that many women find extremely attractive but has little to do with attraction for men. Women are often much more attracted to personalities than men (just think of this: you see ugly men with pretty women much more often than handsome men with ugly women!).</p><p></p><blockquote>"People just like to laugh, and women are no exception."</blockquote><p></p><p>With humor, you can show that you are sharp and smart. Of course, it will depend a bit on the level of your jokes, but with a good joke, you can show your intelligence. For example, by cleverly responding to a certain situation or comment. Intelligence is a very attractive trait for many women.</p><p>In addition, with humor, you create the right mood if you want to pick up a woman. You want to create a nice, friendly atmosphere because women are much more open to men when they are in a positive mood. Plus, humor can help you break through awkward situations, and discomfort is of course the last thing you want when trying to hit on a woman!</p><p>Also, don't forget that the level of your jokes is important here. The kind of jokes you make with your team-mate in the locker room aren't exactly going to go down well with most women. She is more likely to see you as shallow, flat, or even stupid. So with each joke, first consider whether it is suitable for the woman beside you.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Habit 4: An attractive body</h4><p>I just explained to you that women are more attentive to personalities than men, but that doesn't mean that physical characteristics don't play a role at all. If a woman is sleeping with someone, it is still important that she also finds that person physically attractive. A good body is therefore also important when flirting with a woman.</p><p></p><blockquote>"Your personality is nice, but you can't go to bed with personality."</blockquote><p></p><p>There are, of course, certain physical traits that you cannot do that much about, and one man will simply have a little more luck with his body than the other. For example, if you are just unlucky about being on the small side (something that most women don't find so attractive), then you won't be able to do much about it.</p><p>What you can always do, however, is make the most of it. Training your body is possible for everyone, and although the final result will look different from one another, it is still better than if you were walking around with a beer belly. So it's just a matter of making out what you have! [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/important-body-language-tips-on-women.html">Important body language tips to know from women</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Habit 5: Personal Care</h4><p>While there are certainly people who associate masculinity with a lot of hair and a sweaty odor, most women think otherwise. For them, an attractive man is really someone who looks a bit well-groomed and also smells nice. Contrary to what you might think, most women are not interested in diving into the cave with an unwashed caveman.</p><p>The easiest thing you can do in this area is to simply spend a little more time on your personal hygiene. If you find yourself sweating, take a shower before you hit the road to hook up with women. Always put on deodorant as well, otherwise, you'll be smelling of sweat again in no time. Getting a breath of fresh air certainly doesn't hurt either.</p><p></p><blockquote>"There is a reason you don't often see beautiful women walking with unwashed homeless people."</blockquote><p></p><p>Your further physical care is also very important. For example, make sure you shave, or if you have a beard, keep it clean. Most women don't think of Hagrid in Harry Potter when they think of the ideal man. Also, make sure you go to the hairdresser if your hair starts to get too long because that can also come across as unkempt.</p><p>Finally, you must also ensure that your clothes look neat. I'm not really talking about your style, because I've talked about that before. What I do mean is that you should never wear dirty or torn clothes when trying to hook up on a woman.</p><p>In my opinion, these are the five most important qualities a man must have in order to successfully hit on women. It's not the only traits that matter, but if you're working on these five, I personally am convinced that you'll soon be much more successful in seducing women.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-5395047598162079692021-03-03T17:41:00.003+02:002021-03-03T17:41:49.009+02:008 Signs You Are Ready for a New Relationship<p>If you've just gotten out of a relationship, it makes sense if you're experiencing intense feelings. You may be very sad or angry because she broke up, you may be feeling guilty for breaking her heart, or you may be so used to being in a relationship with her that you become totally confused.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2zsJwrFY3IX5zmPq0n9XVsffL_xDaN64cw_3yoxoJhfeFoYa6aSXuYlqpfQSGj2y10sob5equEhFIVKGStTFfMHX9x-kG4vFnL-tujYNvG_ESv5_QlC4Sc8dWLJjM8TKALX3-J4Te7IQE/s1200/vc.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="719" data-original-width="1200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2zsJwrFY3IX5zmPq0n9XVsffL_xDaN64cw_3yoxoJhfeFoYa6aSXuYlqpfQSGj2y10sob5equEhFIVKGStTFfMHX9x-kG4vFnL-tujYNvG_ESv5_QlC4Sc8dWLJjM8TKALX3-J4Te7IQE/s320/vc.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>In order to sort out and process all of these emotions, it is important to take the time to do this, and not jump headlong into a new relationship. You don't want a new relationship to break down just because you are still working with your ex in your head. But how do you know exactly when it is time for a new relationship?</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 1: You look at other women again</h4><p>When you first broke up with your ex, you probably didn't want a new relationship right away, and there is a good chance that you were completely done with women at all.</p><p>But at some point, you will notice that you will do this again. An attractive woman walks by, and you think for a moment to yourself, “Well, she's pretty”. You wonder why you think that is a strange thought, and then you suddenly realize that you haven't thought this in ages. This is a sign that you may be ready for a new relationship.</p><p></p><blockquote>If your subconscious says you can look for a woman again, then it is usually right.</blockquote><p></p><p>Your brain is telling you it's okay to look out for a woman in order to get back to your love life again. It is best to just listen to this.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 2: You are no longer jealous of your ex</h4><p>It doesn't matter who broke up with the relationship: if it is over between you and your ex after a long time, it is perfectly normal to have to deal with feelings of jealousy afterward. Not because your ex necessarily has a much better life than you, but because you don't like to think that your ex might find a new boyfriend again.</p><p>If you hear that your ex has been out with someone else, or if you see your ex walking around town with another man, you don't feel comfortable with it. You feel jealous of your ex because she has a better love life than you, but secretly also a bit like that other man, because you feel like your ex still belongs to you. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-handle-tests-from-women.html">How to handle test from women</a>]</p><p>When you no longer have this feeling, it is a sign that you are really over your ex, and that you are ready to throw yourself completely on someone else. If you can envision your ex with someone else without feeling annoyed about it, then it's probably time to start a new relationship yourself.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 3: You are not constantly looking for distraction</h4><p>Since you broke up with your ex, chances are you didn't want to be alone with your thoughts. Whenever you had nothing to do or were alone, your thoughts ran wild, and you only thought about your ex or your relationship. This made you sad or angry, which is why you really never wanted to be alone.</p><p>To achieve this, you continuously looked for distractions everywhere. You try to keep yourself so busy that you hardly have time for yourself, and when you do, you start calling people or turning on the television: not because you feel yourself, but purely because you don't want to have to think, because you know what happens then.</p><p></p><blockquote>You should want a new girlfriend because you like her, not because she's distracting you from your ex.</blockquote><p></p><p>If you stop looking for distraction all the time, and can just be alone for a while without having to think about your ex, then that is a signal that you are on the right track, and that you can probably carefully try to see if a new relationship is something for you.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 4: You are no longer actively looking for a relationship</h4><p>It is a well-known cliché that you will only find love when you are no longer actively looking for it. Another well-known cliché is that most clichés are only cliché because they are also true. In this case, both of these clichés hold some truth: the truth is, if you're not actively looking for a new relationship, you're probably ready for a relationship.</p><p>I don't mean that you are interested in women; this is, as I explained in the first signal, a very good sign. What I do mean by that is that you no longer have the idea that you have to get back into a new relationship as soon as possible, and therefore desperately scour clubs, bars, dating sites, and Tinder looking for some kind of "replacement" for your ex. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-start-easy-conversation-with.html">How to start an easy conversation with a woman</a>]</p><p></p><blockquote>A relationship for the sake of a relationship never lasts.</blockquote><p></p><p>If you want to start a new relationship, it must be because you want a relationship with a particular person you like, and not because you necessarily want a relationship. Once you are no longer desperate for a new relationship, you are probably ready to move into a new, healthy relationship.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 5: You feel happy again</h4><p>After a breakup, you can have a lot of feelings, but one feeling that almost no one will have is happiness. Most people are in a sad mood most of the time after breaking up a relationship. That doesn't always mean that you don't like anything, or that you can't laugh about anything anymore, but it means that you will soon be back to your previous, lifeless mood.</p><p>At a certain point, however, you will notice that things are going better in that area. You wake up happier again, maybe you whistle on your way to work again, and you just notice that you feel a lot better overall. This is of course great in itself, but it is also a sign that you are ready for a new relationship.</p><p>When you are happy again, that is a signal from your subconscious that you can do without your ex again. This is of course essential if you want to start a new relationship. Plus, it will help if you want to get back to hooking up with women, as few women will fall for depressed-looking men. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-stay-out-of-dreaded-friends-zone.html">How to stay away from friend-zone</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 6: You are no longer afraid of being rejected</h4><p>A breakup in a relationship is almost always accompanied by a lot of pain, often for the person who broke up. Pain is a very unpleasant emotion to which your brain reacts violently. The brain often tries to avoid any kind of new pain. People who have experienced severe pain will often spend some time fearful of taking risks.</p><p></p><blockquote>Mental pain and physical pain may seem like different things, but they are exactly the same to your brain.</blockquote><p></p><p>This also applies to people who have suffered pain in the area of love. If you've gone through a painful break-up, you will probably subconsciously become more afraid of being rejected by women. This makes you less likely to approach women, and you find it more scary than usual to start a conversation with them.</p><p>This is something that normally just goes away, and if it does, it's a very good sign. If you are no longer afraid (or at least not more afraid than before) of being rejected by women, it is a good sign that you are mentally ready to start a new relationship.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 7: You allow other women into your life</h4><p>If you start dating again too soon after a relationship has ended, you will realize it's hard to allow your date into your life. But if you have been dating her for some time and feel like you are not afraid to let her into your life, Then it is a sign that you are ready for a new relationship. You can introduce her to your friends.</p><p>Men who are not ready for a new relationship are not good at this. They prefer to keep the women in their lives separate from the rest of their lives. For example, they will often actively try to keep their friends and the woman they are dating separately.</p><p></p><blockquote>In a relationship, you have to build bridges, not walls.</blockquote><p></p><p>If you had the urge of blocking your date from your life at first, but not anymore, then many relationship experts and therapists say that this is a sign that you can start a healthy relationship again. You are again able to fully allow someone into your life, which is the basis for any successful relationship.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Signal 8: You no longer think about your ex all the time</h4><p>This may be a bit of an open door. However, because it is such an essential signal that is often ignored, I think it would be good to mention this. If you are still constantly thinking about your ex, then this is not a good sign. You're not over her, and then it's a particularly bad idea to dive into a new relationship.</p><p>By this, I don't just mean that as soon as you are alone for a moment, you constantly think about your ex and your relationship. By this, I also mean that you are reminded of your ex by everything in your environment. When you come to a certain place or space, your thoughts immediately jump to the times you were there with your ex, and when you look at a piece of clothing, all you can think about is how beautiful or ugly your ex is.</p><p>This is very annoying, but it will diminish and eventually disappear. Once you stop thinking about your ex too often, you will likely be emotionally ready for a new relationship with someone else. If you're unsure whether you should start a new relationship, it's probably because you're still thinking about your ex too much. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/02/start-a-conversation-with-a%20woman-on-whatsapp-tinder.html">Interesting questions to ask a woman on Whatsapp</a>]</p><p>If you have to ask yourself if you are ready for a new relationship, chances are you are not yet.</p><p>I hope that with this article you can determine if you are ready to start a new adventure with someone else, or if you still need some time to get over your ex. A new relationship is great fun, but only if you are ready for it yourself.</p><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-33872946357388735852021-03-01T09:44:00.002+02:002021-03-01T09:44:18.832+02:003 Ways To Get A Woman If She Plays Hard-to-Get<p>You may know the saying that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. This means that men and women are completely different beings, who deal with certain things very differently. Of course, this can sometimes lead to clashes, and nowhere is this more evident than when it comes to flirting.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgONVYJHrJxd99lqC8elwXE-QJcyU4c2OQZ4FVbOplcwo8KoZDM5WBBagB0yScpQpUhBwGhpC1NtlAskEl6W47oXAjb3QYk0HPrTRjDJdC_88KIaUVLDq7F9DOIf5FxTJYfvBnbZ1GLY5dE/s696/sd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="464" data-original-width="696" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgONVYJHrJxd99lqC8elwXE-QJcyU4c2OQZ4FVbOplcwo8KoZDM5WBBagB0yScpQpUhBwGhpC1NtlAskEl6W47oXAjb3QYk0HPrTRjDJdC_88KIaUVLDq7F9DOIf5FxTJYfvBnbZ1GLY5dE/s320/sd.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>A good example of this is playing “hard to get”. Women often pretend to be less interested in men than they actually are, forcing a man to try harder. Men often do not understand this, because they themselves are much more direct in their approach. They are therefore often too quickly put off when women do this.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">So why do women play hard to get? We have 3 reasons for this.</h3><p>As I just said, it is not easy for men, who are often very direct in their approach to flirting, to understand why women would play hard to get. If you like someone, isn't it easier for everyone if you just say that you like them?</p><p>There is certainly something to be said for this, but I will try to explain to you why women usually don't do this. The following three reasons are the most important in answering the question of why women play hard to get:</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Reason 1: Women are more choosy than men</h4><p>I may be generalizing a bit here, but in general, it is really true that women are more choosy than men when it comes to their choice of partner. I mean both their choice for a long-term partner and their choice for a one-night stand. The latter may sound strange, but it can all be explained scientifically. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/important-body-language-tips-on-women.html">Importance of body language</a>]</p><p>In fact, from the point of view of evolutionary theory, it makes perfect sense that women are more choosy in their choice of sex partner. A man can father as many children as he wants, but a woman can basically have a child only once every nine months. Instinctively they are therefore pickier because they do want strong offspring.</p><p>This is all unconscious of course. Women usually don't consciously think about whether you would be a good father or whether your children would be beautiful, especially if they are just looking for a one-night stand. However, in their subconscious, these primal instincts still play a role, and this is why they are so picky.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Reason 2: Women are afraid of slut-shaming</h4><p>Men and women have become more and more equal over the years, but unfortunately, that is not yet the case in all areas. A good example of this is the phenomenon of slut-shaming: if a woman goes to bed with a lot of men, she is called a slut. When a man has sex with a lot of women, people think it is tougher than a bad thing.</p><p>While this isn't fair of course, it's just the reality, and this is one of the reasons women tend to play hard to get. If they appear too willing, they fear people will see them as easy. In our society, it is still the case that women are judged for this. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/ways-to-control-your-emotions-around.html">Best way to control emotions when you are with women</a>]</p><p></p><blockquote>Women don't always want to play hard to get, but they often feel they have to.</blockquote><p></p><p>This is a pity for both man and woman: the woman does not want to play hard at all but feels that she has to because otherwise she is seen as a slut, and the man has to put a lot more effort into finding out if a woman likes him or not. Nevertheless, this is unfortunately still the reality in this 21st century.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Reason 3: She genuinely likes you</h4><p>Another reason someone might play hard to get is that they might just really like you. If a woman feels that she might want more than just a one-night stand with you, she still wants to play hard to see if you really like her. She's not interested in one fun night: she wants the opportunity for something serious.</p><p>Many men give up as soon as a woman plays a little hard to get, while this often means that she is interested in you.</p><p>In addition, playing hard to get is also just a flirting technique, and studies have shown that this works reasonably well. People are more likely to be attracted to things or people they cannot get so easily. So you probably want her more if she makes it a bit difficult for you. In this case, it means that she is interested in you if she plays hard to get.</p><p>These are the three main reasons that women play hard to get. One thing in common with these three reasons is that: it has nothing to do with women not liking you, and can even mean the opposite. So don't get discouraged too quickly, just apply the tips in this article and you'll likely find out that she's interested in you.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">How do I tell if a woman is playing hard to get?</h3><p>You now know why women play hard to get, but you are not there yet. It is often quite difficult to recognize whether a woman is trying to be hard to get, or just has no interest in you. Moreover, misinterpreting signals can lead to very unpleasant situations: you obviously don't want to bother a woman who isn't waiting for you.</p><p></p><blockquote>Just because some women play hard to get doesn't give you the right to harass uninterested women.</blockquote><p></p><p>The main rule is as follows: if a woman really says unequivocally that she is not interested, then you will just have to listen to it, too bad. However, if she herself indicates that she has doubts, then chances are she is playing hard to get. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-get-younger-women-interested.html">How to attract younger women</a>]</p><p>For example, if she says “I don't want to meet you,” then you really have to accept that it won't work, but if she says “I might not want to meet you at all,” then you know you probably have a good chance.</p><p>You can also pay attention to her body language. A woman who really has no interest in you will turn her body away from you, fold her arms, and not smile.</p><p>If she actually likes you, she'll probably turn your body towards you (at most, she'll turn her shoulders a bit) and giggle or laugh a little. She will also likely look down. If she looks up or to the side, she probably won't like you.</p><p>Finally, I just want to go into flirting via WhatsApp or SMS, because the signals here are a bit different. If she doesn't respond or responds rudely to your messages, it almost always means she's not interested in you. However, if she's just waiting a long time to respond, chances are she's trying to be hard to get.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">How do I deal with a woman who plays hard to get? 3 tips</h3><p>You now know why a woman plays hard to get, and you can kind of recognize when that is the case. However, this is of little use to you in itself. Before you can do anything with this information, you need to know how to deal with women who play hard to get.</p><p>Fortunately, I have a few tips that you can use to see through this. The following tips usually work well if a woman is having a difficult time:</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Tip 1: State the situation</h4><p>The easiest and perhaps most obvious way by a woman who plays hard to get is to point out the fact they are trying to play hard on you. You can confront her and tell her without even scaring her.</p><p>For example, you can do it in a semi-funny way. For example, you can say “I don't know who you are playing hard to get for, but you don't have to”. She is probably not even aware that she is doing that. By just naming it, she often starts to think “Yes, why am I doing this anyway?”. She will probably stop soon.</p><p></p><blockquote>Sometimes women only realize that they are playing hard to get when you mention it.</blockquote><p></p><p>Being honest by mentioning that she is playing hard will work magic. She may easily retract from her previous stand of playing hard.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Tip 2: Make it a bit ridiculous</h4><p>Another way to stop a woman from playing hard to get is to make fun of her for playing hard to get. Please note this: by this, I mean to tease her a bit. Making her really ridiculous is more like bullying, and that doesn't exactly make her feel attracted to you.</p><p>Just make fun of her. For example, say “I like it, I always played that hard to get when I was 16”. This shows her that what she's doing is a bit childish without actually attacking her. Moreover, you show that you have humor, something that women usually find very attractive. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/10/is-she-out-of-your-league.html">Is she out of your league</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Tip 3: Play the game a bit</h4><p>A third and last thing you can do is just play along with her game. If she says, "Maybe I don't want to go home with you at all" you can say something back like "Maybe I don't want that at all." Don't come across as angry with this, but just laugh a little playfully so she can see that you are playing the game of seduction.</p><p>If she asks you, "Are you flirting with me?" Reply, "I have been talking to a strange woman in a bar for half an hour now, why should I be flirting with you? ” In this way, you make it clear that this is indeed the case.</p><p>Hopefully, with this article, you can determine when a woman is playing hard to get, and then poke it through: in the end, this is better for both you and her, because you will get through what you want from each other faster.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-58838868529868461372021-02-28T10:48:00.004+02:002021-02-28T11:19:27.608+02:003 Best Examples of Compliments To Give A Women<p>Picking up women seems so easy for some men. They instinctively choose the right combination of words, looks, and body language that will melt the heart of many a woman. Unfortunately, not every man is like that, and there are plenty of men who already have sweat on their foreheads when they just think about talking to a woman.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjas8IaetwI2kGgqzCFsifQREo1EKHz6hToIROaSlGAcEHbWWf71WbVlK6Uzlkg_7vGcUe2e92waDc4Lt4mFNQX9pWBb2NrkXYUFfx15llkauzjFg2LONybeYnhDcCiHSap4pk7u_eI1-AS/s1999/zx.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1333" data-original-width="1999" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjas8IaetwI2kGgqzCFsifQREo1EKHz6hToIROaSlGAcEHbWWf71WbVlK6Uzlkg_7vGcUe2e92waDc4Lt4mFNQX9pWBb2NrkXYUFfx15llkauzjFg2LONybeYnhDcCiHSap4pk7u_eI1-AS/s320/zx.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>The fact that you have clicked on this article gives me a clue that you probably belong to the group of men who find it difficult to approach women...or maybe not. What exactly do you have to say to a woman if you want to take her in? Although there is of course no answer to that question that applies to all women, I can help you on your way. I will show you out in this article!</p><p><i>Why does it work to compliment women?</i></p><p>If you search the internet for advice on how to pick up women, you will soon end up on the websites of so-called pick-up artists. These men promise to teach you how to get any woman into bed. Many say you can do that in very strange ways. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/the-science-behind-attraction-between.html">The science behind human attraction</a>]</p><p>For example, Neil Strauss, author of the well-known book “The Game”, talks about a technique called “negging”. You would pick up a woman by making unkind comments to her. If you raised your eyebrows a little skeptically, you probably won't be surprised by what I'm about to tell you: these guys are chatting away.</p><p>Whatever these immature, frustrated guys may say, it actually pays a lot more to be nice to women.</p><p></p><blockquote>Neil Strauss himself no longer supports what he wrote at the time.</blockquote><p></p><p>Ultimately, seducing women is all about creating intimacy and a bond of trust. If a woman feels safe, appreciated, and admired by you, she is much more likely to go home with you. You don't achieve this by being a jerk to her. That said, she will probably think you're another creep that women often meet on the street. She will give her number to the police rather than you.</p><p><i>How to hit on women</i></p><p>The thing that can help to attract women is giving compliments. While this may seem like a cliché, women (and men) are just a lot more attracted to people who are interested in them too. You can show this by expressing your appreciation and/or admiration.</p><p>I actually think it's weird that I have to say this, but compliments work a lot better than insults.</p><p>Okay, so if you want to hit on a woman, you better listen to your mom than Neill Strauss, but that's not enough. Giving compliments works, but you will already sense that complimenting alone is not enough. That's why I'm going to tell you how to best use compliments throughout the flirting process. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/6-ways-to-gain-confidence-in.html">How to gain confidence to approach women</a>]</p><p><i>Warning: don't lean too much on your compliments.</i></p><p>I have hopefully convinced you that it works well to give compliments, but I also mentioned that compliments alone are not enough. In fact, if you go too far in complimenting women all the time, it can actually backfire. I will now explain exactly how that comes about.</p><p>When someone gives you a few compliments, you will likely feel flattered. However, if someone showers you with compliments, after a while you will also realize that it is not sincere. From that moment on, your chance is gone forever. </p><p></p><blockquote>Too many compliments make you seem creepy</blockquote><p></p><p>In fact, it will make you look a bit like a creep. Men who compliment a woman every two sentences come across as very eager. Of course a woman often also wants to sleep with a man, but then a man who is interested in her. They don't want a man who just wants sex with the first woman.</p><p>No one says twenty times in a row how nice someone looks because they mean it.</p><p>Throw a compliment to a woman, but do not do it too often. In between, you will just have to keep a nice conversation going. With this, you show that you are interested in her. You do this by asking her questions about her life, listening to it, and responding with nice stories. [Rea: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/top-5-reasons-why-women-reject-men.html">Reasons why women reject men</a>]</p><p>Okay, so compliments aren't some kind of holy grail you can get every woman into bed with. However, they will certainly help you if you use them properly. For this, however, it is equally important to know what kind of compliments you can give a woman when flirting with her.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What kind of compliments can you best give a woman? 3 examples</h3><p>Okay, you know that compliments can go a long way in helping you get better at flirting. Now there is probably only one burning question left on your lips: what compliments should I give a woman? Effective compliments will of course differ for each and every woman, but that does not mean that there are no general tips that can be universal to every woman.</p><p>That's exactly what I'll be doing in the rest of this article. Note that you may never have a guarantee that a certain compliment will work, and you always have to think a little for yourself. However, there are certainly some examples of compliments that almost always get it right. I will explain the following compliments:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Compliment her on her clothes</li><li>Make it clear that you think she is funny</li><li>At the end (not immediately!) Give her a few compliments about her body</li></ul><p></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Example 1: Compliment her on her clothes</h4><p>However superficial it may sound, people (women and men) just love to hear that they look good. At the end, all are a bit vain, superficial, or just a bit insecure, so something like that is always nice to hear. You can respond to this, but you must do this in the right way, otherwise, it can come across as wrong.</p><p>If you compliment a woman on her body, for example by saying that she has a beautiful figure, it can sometimes go wrong. Some women will just love this compliment to hear. Other women will find this to be superficial and sex-hungry. A compliment about her face, for example, is a bit better, but this can also come across as superficial.</p><p></p><blockquote>Flirting is about finding a balance: you want to show interest, but not appear too eager.</blockquote><p></p><p>Then how can you compliment her on her appearance without perhaps inadvertently insulting her? Simple: just compliment her on her clothes. Tell her that you really like her dress, or that you think the print on her t-shirt is so funny. This way you compliment her on how she looks, without it being explicit about her body.</p><p>A compliment about her body later in the evening is probably fine. In any case, you should not come in with it, because then you immediately make it very clear what are your intentions. This will probably put her off. I will tell you more about this later.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Example 2: Make it clear that you think she is funny</h4><p>If there's one thing women are insecure about is to be told they are not funny enough. This is an idea that some men believe that women are naturally less funny than men.</p><p>Ultimately, of course, it's really not that women for one reason or another wouldn't be able to tell jokes. But if you think about it for a moment, you can probably imagine why many women are insecure about this. If you want to get a woman to bond with you, it can help to ease this insecurity. A compliment can be very suitable for this.</p><p></p><blockquote>If you hear something often enough, you will naturally believe it.</blockquote><p></p><p>Just laughing every now and then when she makes a joke can go a long way. And if you also explicitly tell her a little later that she is funny, then it really can't go wrong. This is something she probably really wants to hear. That's why I think it's one of the most effective compliments you can give to a woman.</p><p>Not only that, but it is also a very original compliment. Most men don't even think of saying such a thing. Although women have often become completely insensitive to the standard “pick-up lines”, you will probably be able to get through to her with this compliment. This is the second element that makes this compliment so effective. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/top-5-reasons-why-women-reject-men.html">How to make beautiful women attracted to you</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Example 3: At the end (not immediately!) Give her a few compliments about her body</h4><p>Earlier I said that you should not compliment a woman on her body right away, as this can come across as superficial. Ultimately, of course, you are trying to get a woman into bed. Maybe this is only in the short term, but even if you are interested in a relationship, this seems desirable in the end. How do you do this?</p><p>If you are with her in the evening, give a compliment about her body. Although you should certainly not do this too early, you will eventually have to do it. It is important that you know how to create not only trust and intimacy but also a real physical attraction.</p><p>But when exactly should you do that? The exact moment when this compliment will be most effective will be different for everyone. In any case, it's after you've been talking about other things for some time. If you start to feel that there is a click and she feels relaxed with you, you can try one of those compliments.</p><p>So what can you say exactly? As far as I am concerned, it is often okay to say that you think someone has a beautiful figure. This is a compliment that the most prudish women will not mind very much, and that will be quite tame for other women. This is ideal: from her reaction, you can deduce how far you can go further.</p><p>We have shown you three examples of compliments which you can give a woman to win her. It won't always be easy, but I'm confident you will succeed!</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-78374305860658046072021-02-27T09:52:00.003+02:002021-02-27T09:52:43.255+02:007 Interesting Questions To Start A Conversation With A Woman on Whatsapp/Tinder<p>Every man who has some experience with Tinder knows the following situation: you see a beautiful woman on Tinder and swipe her to the right. Actually, you think she will be out of your league, but then you unexpectedly suddenly have a match with that woman. You open the chat and... you don't know what to say. Or worse, you say something and she doesn't respond.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDnwiy1xAqd0uKhBDP9uts2LLmxTc9cxxk498o627Lidc41peK7YJyd3Li-vJlqmuTOWxUxK4khWstHAaA295XPLh_GxViLs_eXbye_0nPUAnO_CSH4VPEWbDISB2dAyu5fVxkilTPpVLN/s640/bn.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="7 Interesting Questions To Start A Conversation With A Woman on Whatsapp/Tinder" border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDnwiy1xAqd0uKhBDP9uts2LLmxTc9cxxk498o627Lidc41peK7YJyd3Li-vJlqmuTOWxUxK4khWstHAaA295XPLh_GxViLs_eXbye_0nPUAnO_CSH4VPEWbDISB2dAyu5fVxkilTPpVLN/w400-h300/bn.webp" title="7 Interesting Questions To Start A Conversation With A Woman on Whatsapp/Tinder" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator">If you want to avoid this, it is essential to start a conversation the right way, and you will need to keep the conversation going later on. A good way to do this is to ask the right questions. For this you have to ask correct questions - but which are they? </div><p></p><p>How do I know exactly which questions are suitable to keep a Tinder conversation going and which are not? Today I will try to help you answer that question. I will give you a number of fun questions with which you are guaranteed to keep the conversation going, and with which you can learn more about each other in a fun way. I will discuss the following questions in this article:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>What is the best gift someone has ever given you?</li><li>Do you like to travel?</li><li>Do you believe in aliens?</li><li>What kind of food do you like?</li><li>What is your ideal man?</li><li>What is your weirdest trait?|</li><li>What is your favorite artist?</li></ul><p></p><h4 style="text-align: left;"><b>Question 1: What is the best gift someone has ever given you?</b></h4><p>This question is very suitable for a Tinder conversation, for several reasons. First, let her put in a little bit of effort through this question. She probably does not immediately know the answer to this question and will have to think about it for a while. In general, women like it when they have to put in a little effort for you and therefore find you more attractive. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/5-mistake-that-men-make-with-women.html">5 mistake men make with women</a>]</p><p></p><blockquote>Men aren't the only ones who like the hunt.</blockquote><p></p><p>Second, this is secretly a very personal question, although it doesn't seem personal. This makes it seem like you are having a casual conversation. But actually, her favorite gift will reveal a lot about her interests and what is important to her. In this way, you get to know more about her in an accessible way, and the topics of conversation become increasingly personal and intimate.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;"><b>Question 2: Do you like to travel?</b></h4><p>Studies have shown that wanderlust is one of the most common reasons for relationships to end. One partner wants to travel all over the world, while the other wants to slow down and settle down somewhere. Ultimately, it turns out that the two see their lives so differently that the relationship has no future. For that reason alone, it is good to know the answer to this question.</p><p></p><blockquote>A globetrotter and an inner fatter simply do not go together.</blockquote><p></p><p>But this question is also very suitable for keeping a conversation going. It is not a simple yes-or-no question, but actually, something that she can do something with. You can then talk about the places you have all been, or where you would like to go again.</p><p>If that turns out to be somewhat similar, you also give her the idea that there may be a future in this. This makes her take you more seriously as a possible partner.</p><p>Moreover, you also indirectly discover all kinds of other interests of hers. You can deduce a lot from her travel goals:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Whether she likes nature or cities</li><li>Whether she's more into culture or just parties</li><li>Whether she is looking for the hustle and bustle or taking things a bit easier</li></ul><p></p><p>These are all things that are very useful to know and that you can ask about!</p><h4 style="text-align: left;"><b>Question 3: Do you believe in aliens?</b></h4><p>This is a good question to start a conversation with because it is actually more of a starting shot for a discussion. Whether you believe the same thing or not, you probably both have your arguments for it. This ensures that you can have a conversation about this for a longer period of time. This is why discussions are ideal for Tinder.</p><p>Of course, this does not apply to all discussions. You want to keep it fun and light, especially if you've just met someone. That is why it is better not to immediately enter into discussions about religion or political preference. These are topics that people have very strong opinions about, and where disagreements can quickly turn into arguments, and of course, you don't want that. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-start-easy-conversation-with.html">How to start a conversation with a woman</a>]</p><p></p><blockquote>Discussions are fun, arguments are not.</blockquote><p></p><p>In a conversation about aliens, you do not have that problem, because there are (usually) no ideological or religious aspects attached to it. An exception is, for example, when someone does not believe in aliens because it is inconsistent with their beliefs. If that is the case, you should respond respectfully, and then it is better to steer the conversation in a different direction; you are probably not ready for faith discussions.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Question 4: What kind of food do you like?</h4><p>This is an ideal question if you don't have a topic to talk about for a while, because (almost) everyone has an answer to this. Most people know exactly what they like and can talk about it for a long time; After all, you have been eating all your life. That way you still have something to talk about before you need a new topic of conversation.</p><p></p><blockquote>You can talk about food for hours without the chance to offend anyone.</blockquote><p></p><p>Another advantage of this question is that it gives you an opening to go a little further. For example, if she has told you what she likes, you can suggest cooking it for her. Or you can say that you know a good restaurant for that and whether she might want to go there with you. Of course, you shouldn't do this too quickly, but if you've been talking for a while, that's not a bad idea at all.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Question 5: What is your ideal man?</h4><p>Many men are afraid to ask such questions because they are afraid that they cannot live up to that image. In reality, however, this usually works out very differently. Asking a woman to describe her ideal man is ideal for starting a bit of a flirty conversation. This way you can make it clear that you are interested in someone romantically and/or sexually. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/how-to-quickly-find-girlfriend-6-simple.html">Easy way to find a girlfriend</a>]</p><p>You will often notice that she adjusts her ideal male image a bit to you. If her ideal man suddenly starts to show a lot of your characteristics, you can deduce that she likes you. By asking her this question, you give her an easy and accessible way to make this clear to you.</p><p>You can also apply this trick to her the other way around, by making your ideal woman look a little more like her.</p><p>Plus, you can respond to her description in a flirty way. It is better not to say that you have a six-pack, or that you can last for hours in bed: that comes across as boastful and unbelievable. You can do better with a little self-mockery, for example by saying that you recently did ten push-ups and that you needed an hour to recover.</p><p>This way you show that you have humor, and by comparing yourself to her ideal man you hint that you are interested in fulfilling that position.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Question 6: What is your strangest quality?</h4><p>This question is again a very accessible way to let her reveal herself. Naming your weirdest trait doesn't sound like something very personal, but it secretly tells you a lot about someone. That way you get to know her better in a way that comes across as very natural, and not as if you want to write a book about her with boring facts. </p><p>On Tinder, you only see someone's best qualities, so ask about something else.</p><p>In addition, this question is slightly uncomfortable, but in a fun way. She won't feel terribly burdened if you ask this. She has to be a little bit vulnerable to give you the answer because she might be embarrassed about it. This makes for a more personal, intimate conversation, which is of course great if you're hooking up on someone. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/6-dangers-of-hopelessly-falling-in-love.html">Dangers of falling in love hopelessly</a>]</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Question 7: What is your favorite artist?</h4><p>The music people love is one of the most personal things out there. You probably like certain music because it affects you on an emotional level, so there is enough to talk about for a long and make your Tinder conversation interesting. So it doesn't hurt to ask her about her favorite artist.</p><p>You will not only be able to have long conversations with this, but you will also get to know your match personally. Having these types of conversations will also make her look at you differently, and likely feel more connected to you. It is important that you actually ask follow-up questions to continue on this topic, and not continue with another topic once she has mentioned a band.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Bonus tip: which questions you should absolutely not start a conversation with</h4><p>You now know with which questions you can keep a conversation going, but I would also like to give you a tip about the kinds of questions that you absolutely should not ask at the beginning of a conversation. A lot of people think these questions are good openers, but they definitely aren't. I'm talking about questions like these:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>How old are you?</li><li>Where do you live?</li><li>How are you?</li><li>What kind of work do you do?</li><li>Etc</li></ul><p></p><p>These kinds of questions may sound interesting, but they also sound rather boring. They are actually the standard questions you ask someone out of courtesy, not the kind of questions you ask someone you like. Nobody likes a boring conversation, so if you start your conversation with such a question, chances are that your match will think “never mind” and won't say anything back.</p><p>Moreover, these are very closed questions. Most of these questions can be answered in one sentence, and after that, there is really nothing more to say about it. That is of course not good if you want to start a conversation.</p><p>You then have to ask a new question after each sentence, making the conversation more of an interview.</p><p>This way you never get a nice conversation, and you never really get to know each other. You learn more about someone by having a normal conversation than by these kinds of boring questions.</p><p>Later in the conversation, it is of course fine to ask these kinds of things sideways. Ultimately, these are things you want to know about someone. At some point, it's a bit weird when you don't know how old someone is. At the beginning, however, you should stick to more interesting questions and save these types of questions for later.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-12153731451371944242021-02-25T11:05:00.007+02:002021-02-25T11:05:42.126+02:003 Signals to Recognize Bad Women + Examples<p>Many men will have experienced it at some point: you meet a nice woman, you seem to have a click with her, and after some time it comes to a relationship. You couldn't have been happier at the beginning of your relationship, and you may well see a future ahead of you with this woman. And then the problems suddenly arise.</p><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ_ZabQc7QA8uu9pi66M57SDAlyMSvwNsFrEY_hFGRWfHAAzOog5-XaMyXjsdpQwans7lzT2qgYEdd5GxM32fOXSYgBOjplgzFEkm4KSz43Bs_IIQqhyphenhyphenOLU3XrOlxvKKtdfi5wDmvPGu6P/s1020/jk.jpg" imageanchor="1"><img alt="3 Signals to Recognize Bad Women + Examples" border="0" data-original-height="574" data-original-width="1020" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ_ZabQc7QA8uu9pi66M57SDAlyMSvwNsFrEY_hFGRWfHAAzOog5-XaMyXjsdpQwans7lzT2qgYEdd5GxM32fOXSYgBOjplgzFEkm4KSz43Bs_IIQqhyphenhyphenOLU3XrOlxvKKtdfi5wDmvPGu6P/w400-h225/jk.jpg" title="3 Signals to Recognize Bad Women + Examples" width="400" /></a></div><p>She may suddenly become unreasonably jealous when you talk to another woman for a moment. Maybe she's suddenly negative about everything you do. Or maybe she turns out to be incredibly selfish and narcissistic, so she doesn't consider you at all once she brings you in. Whatever the case, at least it is clear that you are dealing with an incompatible or a bad woman.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">What exactly do I mean by a bad wife?</h4><p>A bad wife, of course, sounds like something very negative, and it is, but it also sounds pretty vague. When I talk about bad women, what exactly do I mean by that? What exactly is the definition of a wrong woman? Before I continue with the rest of this article, I'll try to answer that question first.</p><p>There is, of course, no set definition for a “wrong wife”, as the word “wrong” can mean quite a lot. I will therefore explain what I mean by it in this article. When I talk about a bad woman I am talking about a woman with such nasty traits that it is impossible to have a healthy relationship with that woman. Often these women are very manipulative.</p><p>This can of course be for various reasons, but very often there is a serious personality disorder. For example, a woman may be unhealthily selfish, jealous, or narcissistic because something is just not right in her head. That is of course very annoying for her, but that does not mean that you should start a relationship with such a woman.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">A pity relationship is always a bad relationship.</h4><p>If you are dealing with such a woman, then you better not start a relationship or end the relationship. If you don't want to, you can give her the option to seek professional help from a psychologist to work on her problems</p><p>You now sort of understand what I mean by a bad woman, and you also understand that it is impossible to maintain a relationship with such a woman. What you don't know yet is how to spot these types of women to make sure there's no other problem involved. I will help you with that in the rest of this article.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">How do I recognize a wrong woman? 3 signals</h4><p>Now that you know what bad women are, you probably want to know exactly how to spot them. Are there certain signs that warn you when you are dealing with a wrong woman or should you just guess? Let me tell you: those signals are certainly there.</p><p>I will now explain to you what those signals are, and how you recognize them. By paying close attention to see these signs, you can determine whether it is a good idea to go after this woman or continue your relationship. In this article I will focus on and briefly discuss the following common signs :</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 1: She behaves differently with you than with others</b></p><p>As I said before, there are many different types of bad women. What I also mentioned, however, is that bad women are usually very manipulative. They will continuously try to influence you and your behavior to get what they want. This is a characteristic that you can often recognize quite quickly if you know what to look out for.</p><p>If you are dealing with a manipulative woman, she will adapt her behavior to the situation to get what she wants. Therefore, she will behave differently in some people than in others. She can achieve things in different ways with different people. You can use this to discover her manipulative nature early on.</p><p>If a woman is manipulative, she will behave very differently to you than to others. She may be very serious with you and appear very intelligent, but she is very giggly with her friends and pretends to be stupid. If she adapts her behavior to a great extent to the different people she associates with, it is a sign that she can be manipulative.</p><p>Manipulative people often don't even know who they really are anymore.</p><p>Please note that this must involve behavior that is very different. Almost everyone behaves differently depending on the social context. Small differences in her behavior are therefore usually not a bad signal. Only when the changes are very strong, so that you can actually say that she is acting like another person, should you start to worry.</p><p>Also, make sure that you are able to differentiate between a social situation and a work situation. These two can make a person behave totally different. For example, when she talks to her co-workers or her boss, it makes sense for her to be a little more serious and formal. Obviously, that is not a sign that she is manipulative.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 2: She talks overly negatively about others</b></p><p>Another trait you see very often in bad women is being overly negative towards you. She is actually negative about everything you do, and because of this she completely destroys your self-confidence. If you want to know if she's going to behave like that towards you, it's good to see how she treats others.</p><p>For example, you can listen to how she talks about others. When she talks about other people in her life, is she just talking about all the negative sides of those people? Do you never actually hear her positive about anyone? Then there is a good chance that she will only be negative towards you in the future. In that case, you are dealing with a bad woman.</p><p>If she hates everyone, then you really won't be the exception.</p><p>Of course, you also have women who like to gossip or just talk about negative things. This does not always mean that they will also be negative towards you. If you want to check this, you can start a positive topic yourself. If she then turns this conversation into something negative, chances are that you are dealing with a bad woman.</p><p>I probably don't need to explain why you don't want a relationship with a woman like that. Of course, you mainly want to be happy in a relationship, and negativity does not exactly contribute to that. If someone keeps telling you that you are doing everything wrong, at some point you will start to believe it yourself. In addition, you will not really love someone who constantly tells you that you are doing everything wrong.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 3: She has (almost) no old friends</b></p><p>Bad women are by definition very difficult to deal with. That is (partly) the reason that you do not want to have a relationship with such women. Not only her partners will notice this, but also other people around her, such as her circle of friends. By studying this circle of friends, you can often already see signs that a woman is bad.</p><p>A wrong woman will not be able to hold her friends for long. At some point, her friends will discover her nasty traits. In the end, they will likely decide they don't feel like doing that anymore. They disappear from her life, and the bad woman will have to look for new friends again.</p><p>If she can't keep her friends already, then a relationship isn't going to be a good idea at all.</p><p>This means that bad women often have almost only newer friends and hardly any old friends. After all, they got fed up with her a long time ago, so they don't want anything to do with her anymore. So her circle of friends can already be a clear warning that a woman is very difficult to get along with.</p><p>This too can of course also indicate other things. It doesn't necessarily mean you're dealing with a bad woman. For example, a woman may work a lot and therefore have less time to maintain friendships. Maybe it is just someone who is very shy and therefore difficult to make friends.</p><p>That's not to say this isn't a useful signal to watch out for. It does mean that you just have to keep thinking for yourself. Check to see if there are any other reasons why she has few friends from the past. If that is the case, then you basically don't have to worry.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">How do I end a relationship with a bad woman?</h4><p>Hopefully, I convinced you that a relationship with a bad woman is not a good idea and showed you how to recognize a wrong woman. But what if you find out that you are in a relationship with a bad woman? How do you put an end to that, and is that really the only option you have in such a case? I will try to answer that now.</p><p>Of course, I cannot give you some kind of step-by-step plan for ending a relationship with a bad woman. Every woman is different, so the best way to end a relationship will also vary from woman to woman.</p><p>What I can do is to give you some tips that are actually always relevant, and I will.</p><p>First of all, you should always end a relationship face-to-face, and not via text message, WhatsApp, or phone. Not only because you actually owe her this, but also because the chances are much greater that she will accept the situation. Second, you have to be clear with her. So don't beat around the bush, just tell her clearly that you don't want to see her anymore.</p><p>If you don't want to do this, as I said before, you have one more option. You can also ask her to seek psychological help for her problem and/or to go into relationship therapy with you. You can solve most problems this way, but she has to agree. If she doesn't want to, it's your only option to break up.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-20839408377127595582021-02-24T17:49:00.001+02:002021-02-24T17:49:10.309+02:005 Reasons Why You're Still a Virgin and Don't Have a Girlfriend<p>Sex and relationships: these are things that are incredibly beautiful when you have them, and terrible and terrible if you luck them. Imagine half of all songs in the world are about how beautiful love is, and about the other half is about sex. If you've never had these things, it can be very frustrating as you are constantly reminded of what exactly you are missing in your life.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJnETp2g2PeNR3rftQL9wUBHYWhXyO8RqG0FnazmeKKjDvmJ-6ccbjSd4PAoAPrPsFV7yy7XCk6huKkr7Gd79xLvBEY0CRqlig-JtPp9jMlBb4iuGxnAaPN6mrVmgxp4EORs5NzL72Fskn/s1808/mn.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1017" data-original-width="1808" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJnETp2g2PeNR3rftQL9wUBHYWhXyO8RqG0FnazmeKKjDvmJ-6ccbjSd4PAoAPrPsFV7yy7XCk6huKkr7Gd79xLvBEY0CRqlig-JtPp9jMlBb4iuGxnAaPN6mrVmgxp4EORs5NzL72Fskn/w400-h225/mn.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p>If you are still a virgin, you might wonder how this happened exactly. What exactly is wrong with you? What exactly are you doing wrong? How do you make sure that a woman finally wants to sleep with you? You keep asking yourself these kinds of questions, but the answers don't come.</p><p>We have come up with reasons that are making you not have a girlfriend and probably not to have sex.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Reason 1: You are too eager and desperate.</b></p><p>You`ve clicked this article, so chances are you've been trying to get into bed with a woman for a long time. I understand that this can make you think that you have ended up in a hopeless situation and that you are therefore a bit desperate. Although I understand that reaction, however, this will make you have little chances in women.</p><p>Despair is a very natural reaction, but it is also a fairly unattractive trait. If you show that you are desperate and seem just a little too eager to have sex, what kind of signal are you sending out to a woman? If you ask me, I will say you are sending signals that you are not worth it because you almost have to beg her to have sex with you.</p><p>People simply want to have what they cannot have. So if you immediately act very eager, it will be a lot less exciting for a woman. You will then be a lot less attractive to her. Hopefully, I don't have to explain that this will keep her from having sex with you. This will keep you a virgin for a long time.</p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Reason 2: You don't take good enough care of yourself</b></p><p>As mentioned before, as a reader of this article, chances are that you may have given up a little bit of courage that you will never maybe be able to have a girlfriend again. This can lead to despair, but it can also make you stop making an effort. Thoughts like "I will probably still be a virgin, so why should I try my best?"</p><p>I also understand this line of thought, but this will not benefit your chances either. If at some point you stop making an effort, you probably won`t take care of yourself anymore. Your hair is messy, your clothes are old or don't fit properly, your body odor is slightly out of control, but hey, you probably never going to get a woman anyway.</p><p>With that, you will never succeed in any way, I certainly dare to confirm. No woman will find it attractive that you look like a bum. If you want a woman to find you attractive, you better make sure you look good. You can never redo a first impression!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Reason 3: You don't dare to approach women</b></p><p>You often hear people say that confidence is the most important weapon you need on the love path. I can really only agree with that. If everyone was too shy to talk to each other, then no one would ever know that they find each other attractive, and no one would ever have sex again. So a little courage is very important if you are still a virgin.</p><p>I can tell you that it is therefore very important that you dare to address women, but if you do not dare, then I have not actually helped you much further with that. You probably know that you have to approach a woman to have any chance with her. But sometimes the fear of rejection is just so strong that you can't get it done.</p><p>This is actually not that strange; this fear of rejection can be explained very well through biology. To the brain, rejection feels much the same as physical pain, and as a survival mechanism, humans have learned to avoid pain hundreds of millions of years ago.</p><p>So your brain is actually actively working against you when it comes to love.</p><p>How do you gain confidence?</p><p>Getting over this fear is very important, and the only way to do it is to just talk to women more often. The first time, that rejection will hurt quite a bit, but you will notice that it decreases every time. At some point, there will be a woman who will like you. At that point, it will all have been worth it.</p><p>A woman is really not going to suddenly smell that you want to have sex with her.</p><p>The first time you need to talk to a woman, it may help to convince yourself that you have nothing to lose. Right now you are lonely and still a virgin, but if she rejects you, the situation will not suddenly get worse. So you have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain, so it is well worth the risk.</p><p>I understand that with that knowledge it will not be easy to take that first step, but eventually, you will have to find a way to force yourself to do so, otherwise, you will always be alone. Courage isn't something everyone enjoys, but you can build it up slowly, so this isn't an excuse to spend the rest of your life lonely.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Reason 4: You don't dare to take the last step</b></p><p>As I just mentioned, there are a lot of people who simply don't dare to speak to women, so they never come into contact with women and therefore never have sex. Although this is of course annoying, it is clear here exactly where the problem lies: these men will just have to gather their courage to talk to a woman once, and then their problem will eventually solve itself.</p><p>It becomes more difficult when you are actually quite sociable, also with women. You can therefore also speak to women and have a conversation. Sometimes you also have the idea that she might like you, and you are also interested in her. An ideal situation, you might think, but you don't dare to take that last step.</p><p>A conversation can be so much fun, but a conversation alone will never suddenly lead to sex. For this, you have to take the plunge at some point and take that one last step. This can be done by, for example, inviting her to your home, or by kissing her. Of course, do this with some communication in advance, you cannot just pick her up in the middle of a conversation.</p><p>Maybe you don't even dare to hold her by the hand or shoulder, because you actually find that a bit too scary.</p><p>You have to take that last step!</p><p>While this situation is different from the one I mentioned before, the solution is very similar. In the end, you will just have to take the plunge and make it clear to her that you like her. If you don't communicate that you like or attracted to her, nothing will likely happen. This is because women rarely take the first step.</p><p>If you find this a little uncomfortable, then you can show it off. When you do this in a bit of a charming way, a lot of women actually like it. For example, you can just say that you are not very good at those kinds of conversations, but that you actually really like her, and then ask for her number. Many men find it easier if they don't have to pretend that this is going to happen very easily, and they don't have to.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Reason 5: You are too aggressive</b></p><p>The previous two cases were both about men who were too shy and could never have sex with a woman for that reason. However, the opposite problem can also arise. If you act too aggressively, this can also cause you to scare women, and therefore not likely to have sex.</p><p>Many men have been given the idea by retarded “dating coaches” and “pick-up artists” that men should be as aggressive as possible if they want to pick up a woman. For example, a certain piece of shoddy work that I wouldn't call a book, "The Game," talks about something called "negging." This basically involves bullying a woman so that she would like you.</p><p>I shouldn't have to explain that this doesn't work, but apparently, it is necessary anyway. If you just don't act like a hell of a dick, then you're in the right place.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-15682271924770227972021-02-08T12:04:00.004+02:002021-02-08T12:04:23.938+02:0011 Signs That Tell You She Likes You and Is In Love With You<p>In my relationship blogs, I always get regular questions like "how do you know if she likes you?" and "how do you know if she is in love with you?" in our mailbox.</p><p>Picking up women would be a lot less complicated if we could read women's minds more easily. Fortunately, you can get a lot of information from the signals that women send you when they like you or are in love with you.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3bQXF_bocADHyN5Z7SPYa7euO9_xMpUOyTfVhX2pfHAeTbqQQMNPC-s33P8PqrcQFe6c8zuGJIb7TQjOu9LyyRiHnoPXBRWCHlg19RkrkuJRhCLCotHV3Kw-dMO9KjA7jufqCqwmuQ3D-/s350/io.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="264" data-original-width="350" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3bQXF_bocADHyN5Z7SPYa7euO9_xMpUOyTfVhX2pfHAeTbqQQMNPC-s33P8PqrcQFe6c8zuGJIb7TQjOu9LyyRiHnoPXBRWCHlg19RkrkuJRhCLCotHV3Kw-dMO9KjA7jufqCqwmuQ3D-/s16000/io.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p>Not sure what her mixed signals on the one that you actually love mean?</p><p>This article will make you discover which signals can tell you with certainty whether a woman is in love with you.</p><p><b>Signal 1. She shows you that she is single.</b></p><p>If I have learned anything from interacting with women over the years, it is that women send different signals to you. One of those signs is that they want to let you know that they are single.</p><p>Of course, they only do this if they find you nice and attractive.</p><p>The reason a woman hints that she's single is that she doesn't want you to think she might have a boyfriend. That way she tries to remove as many objections as possible from you so that you can flirt her freely.</p><p>By the way, you can also make a statement to elicit such reactions from her. If you're talking to a woman in a bar for a few minutes, you can ask her a question like:</p><p>"And what are you doing here so late at night? Does your boyfriend allow you to stay away from home alone for so long?"</p><p>If she then says something like these:</p><p>"Haha .. no I don't have one! I don't have to answer anyone if that's what you mean..."</p><p>"No. I just sleep at home alone tonight."</p><p>Then you know that the traffic light is on GREEN to flirt with her.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 2. She wants to know everything about you.</b></p><p>Ask yourself the following question:</p><p>If a woman doesn't like you, would she ask you a lot of personal questions? The correct answer is: of course not!</p><p>If a woman isn't interested in you, she'll care less about who you are or what you do. So what does it mean when she is constantly asking personal questions about your life?</p><p>It simply means that she likes you and wants to know more about you!</p><p>If a woman is talking to a man she likes, she will do everything to know more about him. She will try to find out if you really are who you say you are.</p><p>Tip: If your date gets a friend request on Facebook, add her in a separate restricted list. She can't go through your entire timeline and history this way.</p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Signal 3. She forgets the time when she is with you.</b></p><p>It is just afternoon. Your date has arrived home, takes off her coat, and falls on the couch. “How time flew by quickly tonight! Wow. A really nice guy! ” she thinks to herself.</p><p>A woman who likes you or is in love with you will not worry about time. By that I mean she won't be staring at her phone or watch all the time. Also, your date will not use excuses to leave.</p><p>She forgets everything that is happening around her. If a woman likes you, she only has an eye for you and no one else.</p><p>You can test a woman by making the following comment during the date:</p><p>"Gosh, it's already 11pm! I don't want you to be late for class tomorrow. Maybe we better do this again next time"</p><p>If she responds to this with something like:</p><p>"No dude, don't worry, I still have some time. Besides, I can dream that lesson of tomorrow. Or you must want me out haha."</p><p>Then you know you're in the right place!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 4. She wants to impress you.</b></p><p>What do we do when we like someone? Actually, we always try to impress that person.</p><p>If a woman likes you or has a crush on you, she will want to seek approval from you. She will do her best to appear to you as best she can. A woman can do this in several ways:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Dress sexy</li><li>Look attractive</li><li>Extensive for your cooking</li><li>Telling a lot about themselves</li></ul><p></p><p>If a woman says a lot of positive things about herself, she's probably trying to impress you. That way, she seeks approval and wants to impress you.</p><p>OK, sometimes you just have a chatty girl who likes to talk about herself (some women have this character)</p><p>In that case, you're out of luck.</p><p>But in most cases, a woman will want to impress you and by the end of the day she would just realize that she knows little facts about you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 5. She touches you constantly.</b></p><p>Touch a complete stranger on the street and she will probably tell you (in a not so friendly way) to stay away from her. But if a woman is constantly touching you, then you know she likes you or is secretly in love with you.</p><p>A woman will only touch a man when she is comfortable with him. Subtle touches are a sign that she is attracted to you.</p><p>If she has a constant need to touch you, this is a sign that she is flirting with you. She enjoys your presence and has the need to touch you.</p><p><b>Tip</b>: If she touches you frequently, always go along with this and build up the sexual tension between you.</p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Signal 6. She won`t leave you alone on Whatsapp.</b></p><p>Long live modern technology!</p><p>When chatting on WhatsApp with a woman, you can quickly find out if she likes you or is in love with you.</p><p>How do you know if she likes you?</p><p>Does she constantly send you messages or is she always the first to restart the conversation?</p><p>Then you can bet she's crazy about you! Obviously, she is constantly thinking of you and cannot suppress her thoughts.</p><p>Women who like you or are in love with you will text you in the morning.</p><p>The first thing she thinks about is you!</p><p>I'll give you a tip on how to know if she likes you via WhatsApp...</p><p>Just as a joke, don't respond to a woman's message for 24 hours and she will become very insecure. She panics and wonders why you're not returning anything. Her mind will pop up with questions like;</p><p><i>"Did I say something wrong?"</i></p><p><i>"Does he still like me?"</i></p><p><i>"What would he be doing now?"</i></p><p>After 24 hours, send him a message like nothing is wrong. Just a normal text like;</p><p><i>Hey.. how sweet that you think of me. Have been very busy. I haven't forgotten you yet, don't worry;)</i></p><p>With such a message you create two things:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>She is relieved and glad that you spoke up.</li><li>She will try to decipher every word of yours: why does he write "not yet?"</li></ul><p></p><p>In this way you make a woman addicted to you.</p><p><br /></p><p>Signal 7. She troubles you in the middle of the night.</p><p>This signal is recognizable to any man who is successful with women. If you regularly date and hook up with women, you will notice that women start WhatsApp or call you in the middle of the night.</p><p>Sometimes they send you a sexy selfie or a message asking if you're still awake. Women do this especially on weekends when alcohol is involved and they are less able to suppress their emotions and sexual needs.</p><p>Women often have more sex drive after drinking alcohol. She starts to get bored with their friends and wants to find out if you want to meet her.</p><p>Sometimes it takes some exciting WhatsApp messages to get her to your house, but in most cases, women invite themselves.</p><p><br /></p><p>Signal 8. She is jealous of other women.</p><p>No idea if you notice, but women can be very jealous when they are in love with you. They see any woman who talks to you or looks at you as competition.</p><p>Just flirting with other women a little bit can elicit strong feelings from her. Jealousy in a woman is a clear sign that she likes you.</p><p>She gets extra motivated to pick up on you. You can make a woman jealous in several ways. One of them is by using your smartphone. Whatsapps from other women or Tinder messages is a devious way to make your date jealous of you.</p><p>What you do is openly put your smartphone on the table so that your date notices that you are getting messages from other women.</p><p>By the way, don't do this trick too often because she'll think you're not interested in her.</p><p>Another way to make her jealous is to make her see you with other women. For example, invite another woman to go shopping together and walk past the store where your Tinder date works.</p><p>Take a selfie together and throw it on Facebook or Tinder.</p><p>Do this somewhat sensibly: being in the picture together with a French kiss is overkill.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 9. She is making constant eye contact.</b></p><p>When a woman likes a man, she tends to make eye contact and stare at him constantly. It's that look of quiet desire and irresistible attraction.</p><p>The funny thing is that a woman does not notice this at all when she likes you and is in love with you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 10. She playfully teases you.</b></p><p>Do you remember falling in love with a cute girl in elementary school? We pulled the girls by the hair and they playfully challenged the boys in turn. It's the 'girls tease kisses, questions' statement.</p><p>Actually, we didn't really know what we were doing, but we certainly liked it! This principle still applies today, albeit in a somewhat different way.</p><p>Seducing and repelling a woman is one way to quickly create attraction. Women do exactly the same as men.</p><p>How do you know if she is in love with you?</p><p>A woman can make a teasing comment on a date to provoke you and build maximum tension.</p><p>They also play around with us and use this as an excuse to make physical contact.</p><p>Is she constantly teasing you and making naughty or false comments? Then that means he's flirting with you!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Signal 11. She craves clarity.</b></p><p>How do you know if someone likes you? If you've been on a few dates with a woman and she keeps reaching out to you...</p><p>Then you can bet that a woman likes you! Sooner or later she will want to know what is the relation between you and her.</p><p>That is her way of making it clear to you that she is ready for the next step. Only then can you start talking about a relationship.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-38711389952511616642021-01-26T13:00:00.002+03:002021-01-26T13:00:20.970+03:007 Reasons Why She Blocks/Ignores You On Whatsapp or Tinder<p> You got a nice match on Tinder. She responds immediately and enthusiastically to your opening banter and the chat conversation goes quite smoothly.</p><p>You hope to be able to date this girl soon and thereafter exchange phone numbers with her. But then the inevitable happens and you suddenly don't get a response from her.</p><p>The chat conversation between you and her stops immediately.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAzYMa0iuMcwOkAbI6UAoZKjsx25Fyylvv8GcMDVbNE7O1He5mPWT0cHi7FtuNLCeEtNXHwHFFF1vRkn3idzlobkQv1OCHKg3soUKg75LKvXrxn9-9uVorbkEeQfy4VS3yCwWHyqo2SVRr/s1440/mn.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="809" data-original-width="1440" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAzYMa0iuMcwOkAbI6UAoZKjsx25Fyylvv8GcMDVbNE7O1He5mPWT0cHi7FtuNLCeEtNXHwHFFF1vRkn3idzlobkQv1OCHKg3soUKg75LKvXrxn9-9uVorbkEeQfy4VS3yCwWHyqo2SVRr/s320/mn.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>You start asking yourself questions like 'why is she not responding anymore' and 'why is she suddenly ignoring me'.</p><p>If you are familiar with this kind of issue, then this article will are going to list down the reasons why a woman will ignore your Whatsapp messages and how you can prevent this from happening anymore.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">7 Reasons Why She Blocks and Ignores You on Whatsapp or Tinder</h4><p><br /></p><p><b>1. You don't know how to keep her attention.</b></p><p>When it comes to social media, women tend to have a much lower concentration so you will need to keep up in your conversation. </p><p>This means that you will have to convince her that you are worth chatting with. The one thing that you will need to avoid is copy-pasting stuff or using old opening lines to start a conversation.</p><p>For example, I remembered I used to write a message and then would send the same message to different women at once on Tinder. Sadly I was punished when I accidentally sent a message containing another woman's name.</p><p>You can keep the attention of a woman by checking their profile name. If they have included a bicycle in their profile you can start a conversation with it. For example, you can say "Hey!, that's a nice bike. What model is it"</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. You fail her tests.</b></p><p>Men can still write a cool bio on their profiles, if something is not true, sooner or later you will fall through the basket.</p><p>Whether you approach a woman in the pub or via Tinder or WhatsApp, she will always want to know if you are strong in your shoes. One of the things a woman can do is try to elicit responses from you using a test.</p><p>Women love tests to tease you and to see if you really are who you say you are. Suppose she asks you out of the blue if you have more Tinder dates. What do you say then?</p><p>Are you worried that you will come across as a player and say you never do Tinder dating? Or are you making a good comeback and giving her a reaction (with a wink) that she doesn't expect from you at all?</p><p>Tip: The trick is to always be relaxed with her reaction. You will achieve nothing by panicking and feeling insulted.</p><p>Pretend you don't care what she says to you: take it or leave it mentality.</p><p>Not only will she secretly appreciate a direct answer from you, but you also show that you are not afraid of a possible rejection.</p><p>And that is attractive again!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. You act like a pervert.</b></p><p>Flirting on Tinder is fun, but always light! Don't come across as a stalker or creep who hasn't had sex in months.</p><p>Women ignore men in Tinder and Whatsapp because there is a large group of men who behave like pervs while chatting with women online. These kinds of men would write emotional love messages without even knowing the person they are chatting with.</p><p>Women on Tinder have the option of choosing hundreds of men so she will block you as soon as she noticed that you are a stalker.</p><p>Things you have to avoid when on Tinder:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Say you would like to have sex with her</li><li>That you think she's the most beautiful woman on Tinder</li><li>That you don't understand why she matched you</li><li>Always be immediately available to her</li><li>Constantly asking to meet while resisting</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. You're a boring dude.</b></p><p>Let talk about Trump. Every person knows Trump. Why do you think there were two motions to impeach Trump as a president?</p><p>It is because he does not hide his opinion. When he was the president, the Democrats first filed a petition to impeach him because of his acts. Also when he lost the election to Biden there was also a motion to impeach him again.</p><p>Yes, it is certainly true that millions of people are disgusted by him, but at the same time, he is also adored by millions of Americans.</p><p>With his controversial opinion, he knows how to touch everyone. Even his enemies can't stop talking about him.</p><p>And that's the way you should see it with women on Tinder and WhatsApp. Women are bored with dull women on Tinder.</p><p>If these guys are allowed to go on dates, they almost always fall into the friend zone.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. You are not working toward meeting her.</b></p><p>I know men who are addicted to Tinder and WhatsApp. They chat with women all day long. If you ask them how many women they've dated in the past few weeks, they won't be able to answer you.</p><p>It's nice that you have online conversations with women, but it is of no use if you don't actually meet.</p><p>Women will not chat with you forever. There will come a day when a woman will ignore or block you on Tinder or WhatsApp simply because you don't take any action.</p><p>What you need to bear in mind is that always work towards haveing a date with her!</p><p>You can try this after chatting for at least thirty messages. Try to propose a date and see how she will respond.</p><p>Here is an example on how you can request a date with her:</p><p><i>You</i>: So you are never embarrassed on the dance floor?;)</p><p><i>Woman</i>: Are you asking if I'm good at dancing? Ha! I've been dancing since I was sixteen. Now you again!</p><p><i>You</i>: People can make a lot of claims on the internet. There's only one way to really find out;) * reaching out to you for this weekend *.</p><p><i>Woman</i>: Haha you will soon know about it. Let's see if I would be free on Saturday evening!</p><p>Tip: If the situation leads itself to this, always end your message with something that can lead to an actual meet-up.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. She does not respond to you.</b></p><p>While you are chatting with this woman, it reaches a point where she no longer responds to your messages. Of course, maybe she is kind of busy and she might be partly chatting with you. But if there is a consistent trend of leaving your conversation hanging then it means she is ignoring you.</p><p>Most of the time women will stop responding to your texts if you lack conversation ideas. If you have no conversation ideas then you can look at his profile information or picture and look for anything interesting.</p><p>For example, you see a picture of her in Paris, then you ask her if she loves to travel. Then ask further and make it personal.</p><p>Say you love women who want to discover the world and you dislike women who just hang out on the couch every day. It shows that you have a standard and that you do not want to meet up with just any woman.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>7. You are bombing her with useless messages.</b></p><p>Some guys never know when to stop texting. If a woman takes longer time to respond to your messages, then you know something is up. </p><p>There might be some reasons for it. Maybe she has met another man or maybe she is tired of you. If she stops replying to your messages or she takes much longer time to respond to a message does not mean that you have the right to bomb her with a message every 5 minutes.</p><p>You can use the following ways if someone takes much longer time to respond to your messages</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Mirror her reaction!</li><li>Don't send long messages if she only sends you two sentences.</li><li>Also, do not respond immediately if it has taken her 4 hours to reply to you.</li></ul><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-45033410421073607462021-01-25T10:16:00.000+03:002021-01-25T10:16:08.723+03:00How To Quickly Find a Girlfriend - 6 Simple Steps<p>"I want a girlfriend...I am looking for a girlfriend." Are these the thoughts circulating in your head? If the answer is yes, then this article is written for you. In this post, I'll give you statistically proven tips for meeting, picking up, and making the woman of your dreams become your girlfriend.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNhBqSCOvBrmGIpRZz6XqfgWrnys1_ajF818MiYsckLpAey3IAGXmL_MQIYatd6eyxh_yvdHxtsydKo1AJN325iljZEmr3xpE0pAaVMzQFrHk5a2ZLcDoAzTT_dxlPHmrnT2ab0rPZri_U/s500/qw.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="353" data-original-width="500" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNhBqSCOvBrmGIpRZz6XqfgWrnys1_ajF818MiYsckLpAey3IAGXmL_MQIYatd6eyxh_yvdHxtsydKo1AJN325iljZEmr3xpE0pAaVMzQFrHk5a2ZLcDoAzTT_dxlPHmrnT2ab0rPZri_U/s320/qw.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><b>How to Quickly Find a Girlfriend - 6 Simple Steps</b></p><p><b>1. Increase Your Chances With Online Dating</b></p><p>Mathematical calculations allow us to see almost anything in a new way, even something as mysterious as love. Let me give you a tip that will help you find your true love faster with online dating.</p><p>How do you, as a normal man, get success on dating sites and apps like Tinder, OKCUPID, and Badoo?</p><p>Let's grab the website Badoo.</p><p>Badoo is among the top sites where you can easily find and get a girlfriend. Using this dating app, a user is able to locate women who are near your location. All you have to do is create a profile and the app will locate your region and list all potential women surrounding you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Mathematical Formula To Find Your Dream Partner</b></p><p>Any man who has been successful in hooking up with women comes to a point where he wonders when is the right time to settle down. When do I go for long-term happiness and a committed relationship?</p><p>Obviously, it's not a good idea to stick with the first best date because she's simply showing some interest in you. But at the same time, you don't want to keep dating for years either. There will come a time when you want to settle down.</p><p>But how do you know when it's time to settle down with all those potential dates out there? We have an abundance of attractive single women today which doesn't make it any easier.</p><p>The mathematician Dr. Hannah Fry from the University of London came up with a handy formula for this. This formula is based on the 'optimal stopping theory' of psychologist Neil Bearden.</p><p>This formula works like this: </p><p>Suppose you started casual dating from the age of 15 and still wanted to be in a steady relationship by the age of 35.</p><p>Now there are X number of people who you could potentially date during your lifetime and they also vary in suitability.</p><p>The fact is, once you start dating, you can't look back to the women you could possibly have dated anymore. That is also the main reason why many womanizers have difficulty settling down.</p><p>It's that persistent fear of commitment where one feels that carefree freedom will disappear once a serious monogamous relationship is entered into.</p><p>In addition to looking ahead into the future, once in a relationship, you cannot go back to your old nostalgic dates.</p><p>Women don't like it that much when they are abandoned by someone else and you suddenly find yourself on their doorstep after years.</p><p>In other words, once you decide to get into a relationship with a nice woman, there are other things that you have to give up at the same time.</p><p>Making the right choice when entering into a relationship is therefore wise.</p><p>It also puts being dumped by women - who, in retrospect, you didn't like that much at all - in a different perspective.</p><p>Dr. Hannah Fry advises you to put everyone aside as a serious partner for the first 37% of your dating time.</p><p>After that, you should choose female dates that you think are better than the women you have dated until then.</p><p>You simply use the first group of women as 'reference material' .</p><p>It has been mathematically shown that if you start looking at your dates this way, you have the best chance of eventually finding a partner that will make you happy.</p><p>Unfortunately, this method also involves some risks:</p><p>Your perfect partner can be in the first 37%</p><p>So you run the risk of disapproving her and never meeting such a nice woman in your life again.</p><p>Imagine the first 37% of the women you've dated are incredibly boring or obnoxious. But that the next date you have is just a little less annoying and annoying than anyone you've dated before.</p><p>If you were to follow the mathematical method literally, you run the risk of entering into a relationship with a woman who is slightly less irritating.</p><p>While the Optimal Stopping Theory cannot guarantee a hundred percent dating success, there is no other mathematical strategy that can do it better.</p><p>It not only teaches you to recognize relationship material and eventually find a valuable girlfriend, but it also gives you some time to get better at picking up women.</p><p>With this method, you can enjoy your single life while your friends immediately plunge into their first best relationship and end up completely miserable.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Flirting Women in the Pub</b></p><p>Picking up women while going out requires a different approach than online dating. It depends entirely on the discos and clubs whether you are going to get a cute woman or not.</p><p>In addition, flirting women in the bar and nightclub has both advantages and disadvantages.</p><p>If a disco is too loud, without really places to talk, then it becomes a lot more difficult, or you have to dance.</p><p>At some bars, people are very spread out and people come in groups to talk to each other and not to outsiders.</p><p>In principle, it is also best to avoid these bars.</p><p>What in my experience is the best place to meet women at night is a kind of combination between a bar and a disco. In such places there is sound and lights, but not so much that you cannot have a conversation.</p><p>There are more often women on the dance floor who are looking for contact. You can dance with these women for a while, but the best part is that you can take them to a quieter place to talk in these bars.</p><p>At bars and discos, it is best to test where people are most social.</p><p>You may find that in some bars, people are ready to socialize and talk to each other and in others, they spit in your face so to speak.</p><p>An advantage of meeting women at night is that alcohol is involved, this is also a disadvantage.</p><p>The advantages of this are that if you drink alcohol you have less fear of approach. Women themselves are also looser because they drink alcohol.</p><p>This makes them easier to flirt them.</p><p>The disadvantages are that you can think less logically and so can the women.</p><p>This can make stupid mistakes, a woman can lose her attention, or it is more difficult to have a conversation with a woman.</p><p>If you want to have sex quickly, it is best to find women when going out, because of alcohol and other reasons women give in to temptation more quickly.</p><p>A disadvantage of meeting women when going out is that they are constantly talking and chatting with other, you have a lot of competition.</p><p>Rest assured, the other men say almost the same thing to the women hence have a little chance of winning them.</p><p>The disadvantage of women being approached so much is that they are less likely to give you a chance.</p><p>For this reason, it is wise to start a conversation indirectly.</p><p>You initiate a conversation in a way that is not suspected of hooking up to her.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. Friendship is Prohibited</b> </p><p>Once you have met a nice girl, it is important that you keep picking up on her. You want to see every date between you as a new date.</p><p>So don't think you can burp and fart on the third date because she likes you anyway.</p><p>Save that kind of antics for once you're in a relationship (although in my experience they often don't really appreciate it.</p><p>In the meantime, keep flirting and make sure she goes home feeling great every time and likes nothing more than texting you and wanting to meet up.</p><p>Also, don't act like some kind of her best friend. Your goal is to flirt her. There is no middle ground.</p><p>It might be a failure or a glorious victory.</p><p>This approach prevents you from dating unnecessarily long with little relational potential.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. Meet Regularly</b></p><p>A relationship can only succeed if you also see each other regularly. If you don't do this, you run the risk that your attraction will disappear like snow in the sun or another man will run off with your date.</p><p>Once a woman likes you, she wants to see you regularly. At one night stands we often see that it is a one-time meeting.</p><p>This is often not so much for a woman because a woman does not care about a one-night stand, but she cares more about the way you communicated to her.</p><p>If you make it clear to her in all kinds of ways that it is was a one-time pleasure, she will reason it that way and draw her conclusions.</p><p>There are several things you can do to make sure that it won't be a one-time one-night stand:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Make it personal (glimpse who you are)</li><li>Exchange numbers with each other (for a continuation)</li><li>Make a proposal to see her again soon (cup of coffee)</li><li>Communicate that it's not all about sex</li></ul><p></p><p>With this, you can be sure that she likes you and it can be a catalyst for you two to become lovers.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. Hold the Strings</b></p><p>During the dating process, it is important that you do not lose yourself completely with the other person. As a man you always want to stay in control and stay yourself.</p><p>Not only because you then become less dependent on your dates and relationships, but also because you are teaching yourself not to always walk on your toes.</p><p>The one who has the most to lose is the one who is most dependent.</p><p>Once women find themselves losing control and your attention, they will try harder to get that back.</p><p>They get desperate and become obsessed. She will think about you every minute of the day. They completely lose themselves.</p><p>It's a powerful way to get a woman obsessed.</p><p>Tips for staying in control:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Wait a little longer with reaction time</li><li>Set yourself priorities (focus on work and sports)</li><li>Divide your free time (also pay attention to friends and family)</li><li>Show competition (flirt with other women in front of her)</li><li>Stay mysterious (don't tell her right away what you feel about her)</li><li>Good sex (being dominant and paying attention to the afterplay)</li><li>Don't force yourself (if you call her and she doesn't answer, don't call her again)</li></ul><p></p><p> </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-67579635191681237622021-01-24T11:39:00.003+03:002021-01-24T11:39:25.883+03:00The Science Behind Attraction Between Men and Women<p>In this world, there are many questions that you would wish to ask. Example of such questions may be like: </p><p>How do you make a woman fall in love? </p><p>How do you create attraction between man and woman?</p><p>Have you ever thought about how people fall in love with each other?</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrymmHXoPEDaaqU3h8d4X7N6Z40sxl9vQ3CWGFJ4fD7Ych7F9sWv8tk1JcRPyk8Pmdcxy_Xz98UI8lnPHZDvWQx5xOfYVva8u1w7dnV8a7AiaYs74jQDuj9Ji5FkBcHIwxfu1kq3j-m_Vr/s647/fg.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="The Science Behind Attraction Between Men and Women" border="0" data-original-height="363" data-original-width="647" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrymmHXoPEDaaqU3h8d4X7N6Z40sxl9vQ3CWGFJ4fD7Ych7F9sWv8tk1JcRPyk8Pmdcxy_Xz98UI8lnPHZDvWQx5xOfYVva8u1w7dnV8a7AiaYs74jQDuj9Ji5FkBcHIwxfu1kq3j-m_Vr/w320-h180/fg.jpeg" title="The Science Behind Attraction Between Men and Women" width="320" /></a></div><p>The answers to these questions are much simple than you thought. The first thing you need to know is that contrary to what you may think, attraction is not a conscious choice!</p><p>It is not that difficult to arouse attraction in a woman. That is, if you know which factors play an important role in generating attraction.</p><p><br /></p><p>The Science Behind Attraction Between Men & Women</p><p>In this article, there are several things that you will know and they include the following:</p><p></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>What prehistoric alpha males and successful female have in common</li><li>The 5 attractive qualities you want to have as a man</li><li>The greatest threat to the modern man today</li><li>6 Effective Ways to Become More Attractive to Women Unconsciously</li><li>What you need to know about attraction between a man and a woman (things are different than you think)</li><li>And much, much more.</li></ol><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>Women courting in prehistoric times.</b></p><p>You often hear and read that attraction in a woman is mainly about appearance. You will hear people say that in order to attract a woman you will need a certain physical appearance in order for a woman to like you. This is the biggest nonsense out there!</p><p>Sure, good looks lend a hand, but that is not the only thing to arouse attraction in a woman. After all, there is something that is much more important to women than height or an amazing head.</p><p>I am talking about the primal instincts of man. By primal instinct, I mean the innate urge to do things without having to think about it.</p><p>Without these basic instincts, humanity would have long since died out. Women and men share most of the primal instincts with each other (such as the survival instinct), but there are also some important differences.</p><p>Attraction is something that works differently in men than in women.</p><p>I will elaborate on this later.</p><p>Now let's go back to the primal instincts of a man first. We inherited these instincts from our ancestors who lived thousands of years ago. These instincts include the following:</p><p><i>Hunting and gathering food.</i></p><p>Men are naturally hunters and warriors. We hunt and gather food for our families and the tribe to which we belong.</p><p>In the old days, as cavemen, we did this in groups, fighting predators and other hostile tribes to protect our women and children.</p><p>The women played an important role in raising the children. They were mainly caring and less competitive.</p><p><i>Sex and reproduction</i></p><p>The hunger for sex will always remain for a healthy man. And that might be a good thing, otherwise, we might have long since died out.</p><p>To put it bluntly, we have a constant tendency to spread our seed. When we see a beautiful woman walking on the street, we quickly think `Damn it!, I would like to have her in my bed!`.</p><p>That's because we men are mainly visual. For us, an attractive woman is of great value. An attractive woman is a woman who is healthy and fertile.</p><p>Once we find a partner and get her pregnant, our testosterone levels drop for some time.</p><p>And that has an important reason ...</p><p>Because constantly cheating while your partner is pregnant or needs help with a newborn baby could have dangerous consequences.</p><p>Because our hormone levels change drastically, we think less about sex and we are mainly engaged in caring. This ensures that we stay with our partner and the newborn baby, especially in the first phase of life.</p><p>That way, as a man, we also take care of the offspring and protect our partner against predators and other men.</p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>The greatest threat to the modern man.</b></p><p>However, there is one major threat to the modern man and that is...</p><p><i>Welfare!</i></p><p>In the past, the man was needed to support the family and protect the children. Now a woman with a decent job can also raise her children on her own.</p><p>Today it has become much easier to leave your partner when the relationship is not going so well. The number of divorces and broken relationships has never been higher than this in the past fifty years.</p><p>Modern man is much more independent and thanks to the internet we have the opportunity to meet thousands of potential partners. The pool from which both men and women can fish has become much larger than it was a hundred years ago.</p><p><i>Monogamy or polygamy?</i></p><p>Did you know that there are more polygamous than monogamous societies worldwide? This is shown by research by evolutionary psychologists.</p><p>According to some dating coaches, this is the argument for claiming that humans are not that monogamous by nature.</p><p>But that is too easy to say.</p><p>Because there are also monogamous cultures that are not Western or Christian. Human beings, like animals, have behavioral patterns that are genetically determined, but the difference is that we have a mind that allows us to direct those drives and emotions.</p><p>We humans have our primal instincts, but are able to hold back when we want to cheat.</p><p>And besides that, polygamy has one major evolutionary disadvantage:</p><p></p><blockquote>In cultures where one man is allowed to have multiple wives, it is more difficult for other men to get a wife. In the long run the females run out, which ultimately leads to inbreeding and rare abnormalities.</blockquote><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>Attractive traits of a real Apha Man</b></p><p>As a man, how can you increase your attraction to women? I used to have no idea how female psychology worked.</p><p>When I finally got through the science behind the attraction between a man and woman, a new world opened up for me. Picking up women turned out not to be as difficult as I always thought!</p><p>When it comes to female attraction, there are a number of factors that play an important role. To begin with, all sexually worthy men have one thing in common.</p><p>And no... I don't mean the size of their genitals but value.</p><p>All sexually worthy provide value.</p><p>Value makes women find you attractive.</p><p>Attraction is not something that has been invented recently by dating coaches or seduction sites.</p><p>Let's go back a little bit to the time of our ancestors, the cavemen, which I talked about earlier. </p><p>What was attractive to women thousands of years ago is still so today.</p><p>And even though the time of the cavemen is long gone, the mechanisms of attraction have always remained the same.</p><p>What characteristics did the troglodytes alpha males have in common that the females found attractive at the time?</p><p>Then think properties such as:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Dominance</li><li>Creativity</li><li>Determination</li><li>Social intelligence</li><li>Assertiveness</li></ul><p></p><p>At the time, it was not the appearance of a man that was looked at, but his behaviour. Good looks were of little value at the time. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/7-irresistible-traits-of-real-alpha-male.html">7 characters of Alpha male</a>]</p><p>What was far more important to women thousands of years ago was EVERYTHING that increased the chances of survival and reproduction.</p><p>And this is programmed into the genes of every woman on Earth, regardless of race, religion, or culture.</p><p>From a woman's perspective, an attractive man is a man who, especially through his behavior and non-verbal body language, shows that he possesses the above qualities.</p><p>So it's not so much about how you look, but how you behave in front of her.</p><p>As I wrote before, attraction is not a choice.</p><p>For a woman, attraction and falling in love with a man is an emotional response and never a rational choice.</p><p>You can define this as 'raw attractiveness'.</p><p>Women therefore live in the emotion of the moment and often only rationalize afterward.</p><p>So NEVER let the lack of money or your appearance be an excuse for not being able to hit on women. It is true that you have no influence on the external characteristics inherited from Mother Nature.</p><p>But there are plenty of things you can do to arouse the attraction in women.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Six ways to instantly become more attractive to women</b></p><p>OK, now you know the theoretical science behind the attraction between man and woman. Now is the time to put this theory into practice.</p><p>Now if you think you should put on a bearskin and drag an attractive woman home by the hair, you are wrong. What I want is for you to sub-communicate the attractive qualities of an alpha man to a woman.</p><p>I will give you a number of ways how you can do that in a simple and effective way. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/5-mistake-that-men-make-with-women.html">5 mistakes men make with women</a>]</p><p><i>Assume High Status</i></p><p>Not everyone wants to admit it, but we can't deny it either. Money and power are important in our society. Or even better, the status you have in our society. You can have everything in order; body height, nice head, etc.</p><p>But if you don't have a penny or if no one respects you, that will be an issue to anyone that you date. Even in the time of the troglodytes there was some form of hierarchy. The oldest or strongest of the tribe was the leader of the group that was allowed to command the rest. And this high status still applies today.</p><p>A 2010 study shows that women find men more attractive when they drive an expensive car. Men were depicted in a photo with a Bentley Continental (for the car layman; an expensive car) and a Ford Fiesta.</p><p>The men who sat in a Bentley Continental were seen by the female test subjects as the most attractive men. </p><p>Women assign more power to men of high status. It has to do with social status and prestige that women find attractive in a man. It is this high status that makes you stand out to her faster than others. The fact that several people work under you and listen to you makes her think you must be capable.</p><p><i>Make yourself irresistable with attractive body language</i></p><p>Using nonverbal body language in the right way can be a great way to pick up women. An open, confident attitude is more attractive than any clothing or hairstyle. Because no matter how you cute you are, men are judged by women regarding their attitude.</p><p>With the right nonverbal body language, you can show a woman that you find her attractive and increase your attraction to women in interactions.</p><p>What you NEVER want to do:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Constantly crossing your arms</li><li>Hold a beer or wine glass in front of your stomach</li><li>Constantly on your phone</li><li>Keeping objects on your lap</li><li>Looking away when talking to someone</li><li>Avoid eye contact</li></ul><p></p><p>And something about your hands...</p><p>You may not be aware of it, but women like it when they see your hands.</p><p>Even the FBI interrogators always look at the hands of the person they are questioning. This is because people, albeit unconsciously, hide their hands when they have something to hide. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-start-easy-conversation-with.html">How to start a conversation with a woman</a>]</p><p>So NEVER put your hands in your pockets or under the table when on a date. That way you become less attractive because women subconsciously are less likely to open up to you.</p><p><i>Look older that you really are</i></p><p>No this is not a joke. In evolutionary psychology, it is also called the 'George Clooney effect'. It has to do with the strategic advantage that women have when they date a somewhat older man.</p><p>Adult and older men are often more financially independent and emotionally stable (life experience) than young men. In addition, something else plays an important role.</p><p>While women only have a number of years to conceive in their lifetime, age plays much less on their fertility in older men.</p><p>How can you be estimated to be older than you actually are? </p><p>A simple way to look older is to grow your beard. Some may argue that the beard trend is over, however research proves the contrary. Beard's growth appears to be related to masculinity, dominance, and maturity for women.</p><p> According to an Australian study from 2013, women find men with (stubble) beards the most attractive. To be even more precise: the stubble you have after roughly ten days of not shaving.</p><p>Other tips for looking older and more mature:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Wear shirts and watches</li><li>Avoid sports shoes</li><li>Don't wear colorful shirts with childish texts</li><li>Strength training (ensures a more masculine posture)</li></ul><p></p><p><i>Work on your physical appearance </i></p><p>This is arguably one of the best ways to become more attractive to women.</p><p>Work on your physical!</p><p>Not only do women find a strong physically more attractive, but it also provides numerous health benefits.</p><p>By that, I don't mean that you want to have a bodybuilder look.</p><p>It is mainly about building some muscle mass in combination with a lower fat percentage.</p><p>A 2007 study by the University of California shows that women were more likely to enter into short-term relationships with men with strong physicality.</p><p>Men who were not muscular were seen as more potential partners for a long-term relationship.</p><p>This is probably due to the 'lover' and 'provider' principle.</p><p>Attractive men are believed to have better genes and so are ideal for a woman to get pregnant with.</p><p>Unattractive men on the other hand are useful to women as providers because they help raise the child (of another man).</p><p><i>Stimulate her laughing muscles</i></p><p>Make a woman laugh and you automatically build attraction.</p><p>And this has a simple reason ...</p><p>By laughing together you increase the intimacy with each other. You are stimulating her emotional brain and changing her mood instead of her logical mind. Multiple studies show that women are attracted to men they can laugh with.</p><p>For example, women in this study were involved in an experiment. A man in a bar made two men laugh, while a woman sat at the nearby table. The woman were hearing everything the men told each other.</p><p>When the joker walked up to the woman, he was three times more likely to get her number than the men who just listened to the story.</p><p>This experiment was repeated no less than 60 times.</p><p>Not much later, the women were approached by the researchers asking if they would like to go on a date with the joker.</p><p>Not only were the women more likely to give their number to the humorous man, but he was also rated higher for attractiveness and intelligence than the others.</p><p><i>Play her musical instruments</i></p><p>Still trauma from the recorder or guitar that you used to have to play in school? Then get them out of the closet because women seem to love them.</p><p>In a 2014 study, 1,500 women (with an average age of 28) were interviewed to listen to simple and complex pieces of men's music.</p><p>And what turned out?</p><p>The women surveyed were more likely to date a man who played a musical instrument.</p><p>If you don't have musical talent, don't worry, just holding a guitar in your hand can help you get more dates with women.</p><p>From this experiment, it shows that men have more success in women when they know how to play music or just holding a guitar case.</p><p>The men with a guitar case turned out to get a number from a woman more often than the men who only carried a sports bag or nothing.</p><p><b>Tip:</b> On dating apps such as Tinder, you will also appear to be more successful if you post photos online where you have a musical instrument in your hands.</p><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-56651919655019777442021-01-23T12:34:00.002+03:002021-01-23T12:34:28.300+03:007 Best Ways to Be Mysterious To Women And Became Irresistible<p>Did you know that being mysterious is a great way to arouse curiosity in women? To understand why women find mysterious men attractive, we need to understand the psychology behind it.</p><p>Women naturally become fascinated with men who cannot immediately comprehend them. If you remain mysterious, a woman will be more attracted to you because you are defiant and unpredictable.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim4fzQo1YKQrZ2YDl7RHcdw63RVo-758QydY35heeK9Vv8fB8MJNpa6J0Z4nXZGwg4PbxXssJ6-tWGnioR9-7YtpMKH1Tqa9ohk_aQ5jQIYnEmPObU9eBNXMPxVlxkIgW37y_xStGj3VDn/s1080/hp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="7 Best Ways to Be Mysterious To Women And Became Irresistible" border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="1080" height="160" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim4fzQo1YKQrZ2YDl7RHcdw63RVo-758QydY35heeK9Vv8fB8MJNpa6J0Z4nXZGwg4PbxXssJ6-tWGnioR9-7YtpMKH1Tqa9ohk_aQ5jQIYnEmPObU9eBNXMPxVlxkIgW37y_xStGj3VDn/w320-h160/hp.jpg" title="7 Best Ways to Be Mysterious To Women And Became Irresistible" width="320" /></a></div> <p></p><p>This will make a woman think about you more and more. You became a puzzle to her and does not how to figure it out.</p><p>There are several ways to get a woman's attention and pique her curiosity. In this article, you will get 7 ways to be mysterious and make yourself irresistible to women.</p><p><br /></p><p>7 Best Ways to Be Mysterious for Women.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>1. Let her discover how wonderful you are.</b></p><p>There are a few things you should never do while dating a woman. Apart from winning her almost instantly, it is also not a wise idea to say how great you are. Bragging about yourself or showing off is an unattractive trait. And yet there are plenty of men who think this helps to hit on women.</p><p>The opposite is true.</p><p>With bragging, you communicate the opposite of what you actually mean to say. You show that you are desperate for appreciation and approval.</p><p>Moreover, you cannot seduce a woman in a logical way.</p><p>Women want to find out for themselves with their own communication skills whether you are really that special.</p><p>Don't talk about how great you are, but give her time to discover you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Look confident (or pretend) </b></p><p>Getting more confidence with women is incredibly important. It not only makes flirting easier for women but also creates more appeal.</p><p>A man who is confident and shows his confidence is incredibly sexy to a woman. No woman wants to enter into a relationship with a man who is extremely insecure.</p><p>Self-confidence adds to the atmosphere of mystery.</p><p>Why that is so? The answer to that is quite simple.</p><p>Let's example say the world-famous secret agent: James Bond. What makes James Bond so successful with women?</p><p>He has ice-cold confidence. His non-verbal body language radiates power and mystery. When he walks into a room, he goes straight for his goal. He's not afraid of being rejected and doesn't care what other people think of him. </p><p>People interpret his non-verbal behavior as dominant and confident. This arouses awe and curiosity in women.</p><p>Wet panties guaranteed.</p><p>A woman who comes into contact with a confident man will ask herself things like:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Who is that mysterious man walking around here?</li><li>Why is he walking around here like nobody can hurt him?</li><li>Why is he so damn sexy?</li></ul><p></p><p>If you want to radiate an aura of mystery like James Bond, it is important to appear confident to others.</p><p>So will you do that, even though you are very insecure about yourself?</p><p>Fake it till you make it!</p><p>If you're not confident, at least pretend you are.</p><p>Changing something as simple as body language, say, can convince your mind that you have confidence.</p><p>Acting as if you are confident has two advantages:</p><p></p><blockquote>If you practice this often enough, women will no longer realize that you are insecure and also you actually become more confident because you take action.</blockquote><p></p><p>I can remember plenty of dates in the past where I was quite insecure at first and nervous. Yet that same evening I went into bed with the most beautiful women because I decided to persevere despite all my doubts.</p><p>So what you need is to work your confidence up and start approaching women fast. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2021/01/7-irresistible-traits-of-real-alpha-male.html">Charater traits of an alpha male</a>]</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Stay mysterious by being unpredictable.</b></p><p>One of the best ways to be mysterious to women is to be unpredictable. </p><p>“Be unpredictable? So just don't show up when you have a date or something? ”</p><p>Well no. If you do then I can assure you it will end up being single forever. Don't confuse being unpredictable to women with being unreliable.</p><p>Let me tell you a story...</p><p>I knew a man who always kept his promises and did everything for his wife. He never left with his friends and always stayed at home neatly. His wife only had to look at the clock and she knew where he was from.</p><p>He was a good man who gave his full attention and affection to his wife. In his eyes, he was the perfect man. Unfortunately, their marriage lasted less than five years. His wife appeared to have cheated on a colleague.</p><p>When they argued about this, his wife bitterly replied to him that she didn't want this boring life anymore.</p><p>Do you see where it went wrong?</p><p>This man did not provide enough stimulation and challenge for his wife. He aroused too few emotions in her. As soon as a woman feels that she no longer has to fight for him, she starts to have doubts. </p><p>Being too predictable kills the sexual attraction. It's nonsense to think that you should always be there for her when she calls or needs you. This makes you clingy.</p><p>People just love people who are difficult to fathom. If you are available to her all the time, you will be less valuable to her.</p><p>Tips that can keep you unpredictable:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Determine the time you want to spend on a woman</li><li>Not always available when she wants to meet you</li><li>Dare to live without needing the consent of others</li><li>Don't call her back right away if she called you</li></ul><p></p><p>Never lose sight of your own priorities in life at the expense of another. Whether it's your third date or a six-month relationship.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. Don't be an open book.</b></p><p>Don't tell your date everything. Especially at the beginning of your dating phase. It is important that you pay attention to this.</p><p>The fact that you are thrilled and are happy with her does not mean that you have to tell her your whole life story in the first hour of the meeting.</p><p>Being an open book makes you boring and predictable. Talking less is always better. A good storyteller makes the listener guess and waits in suspense for how the story ends.</p><p>Be candid but never reveal all the details. Don't give everything away to her right away. You can be a mystery to her by not letting go of everything immediately.</p><p>Give her the chance to find out who you are. Keep it short and sweet and your date will do her best to learn more about you. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-tell-if-she-is-interested.html">How to tell if a woman is interested with you</a>]</p><p>Of course, you can talk about personal matters when she asks you a question, but don't give out too much information at once.</p><p>It is even better to answer her questions she asks you with humor. Make her laugh and leave the answer to the question in the middle.</p><p>Example:</p><p>Woman: <i>But tell me. Surely you date more often through online dating?</i></p><p>You: <i>You should know! I have two more scheduled tonight. So if you don't mind then I don't want to make it too late.</i></p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. Control your emotions </b></p><p>Do you know that feeling? You see a woman and find her attractive. But you just don't get it, you can't read it. That is exactly why you find this woman even more interesting and you start talking to her.</p><p>She first gives a very positive reaction to you and is nice and sweet to you. Then suddenly it seems like she is no longer interested in you at all.</p><p>You have no idea why, but you just want this woman! Men can have the same effect on women and become interesting as a result.</p><p>I had a nice drink with a woman last week. We had a nice conversation and she asked me how I feel about women and how I treat women. She said she was just very curious.</p><p>So I asked her why she was so curious. Then she said she finds interesting people attractive. She explained that I was interesting because she could not properly gauge me.</p><p>She said she enjoys reading people's minds and finding out what they are like. And that this did not work at all for me.</p><p>I had to laugh and said that I heard this often. Apparently, I am quite capable of controlling my emotions.</p><p>So below are some tips that I use to control my emotions and can help you too:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Always stay cool and calm (even when people treat you badly)</li><li>Don't raise your voice in a discussion (this looks weak)</li><li>Show people that their words don't affect your mood</li><li>Do not start unnecessary discussions with people if there is no reason to do so</li></ul><p></p><p>Men who are successful with women have one thing in common, that is, they are in complete control of themselves and are difficult to fathom. This makes them mysterious and puzzling, which is what many women find attractive.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. Don't give her too much attention.</b> </p><p>I know you have seen this before. A woman falling with a man who thinks less of him. Sometimes you even wonder whether such a relationship would last long.</p><p>How is it possible that so many women fall for bad boys? Besides the fact that bad boys are often sexually attractive, there is also something else at play. Bad boys are unpredictable, dominant, and cannot be controlled.</p><p>Many women are naturally caring and sensitive people. They have a natural urge to change men and make them happy.</p><p>A woman who falls for the wrong man thinks she can change him, but will hardly ever succeed.</p><p>A man with a bad boy character usually does things differently. He does this in two different ways:</p><p><b>a) Physical:</b> By being dominant and letting her keep in suspense what is going to happen.</p><p> <b>b) Emotional:</b> He cannot be fathomed. She does not understand him. One minute he's very sweet to her and the next he's a terrible bastard.</p><p>The bad boy brings out feelings in a woman that she cannot resist. It's like an emotional rollercoaster that she doesn't want to get out of.</p><p>These kinds of relationships sound nice on paper, but they are doomed to fail.</p><p>What can you learn from a bad boy (without being an asshole)? [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/ways-to-improve-your-physical.html">How to improve physical appearance overnight and attract more women</a>]</p><p><i><b><br /></b></i></p><p><i><b>Give her mixed signals.</b></i></p><p>By mixed signals, I mean that you seek rapprochement and alternate that with distance.</p><p>Examples:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>You have a great time with each other on a date. But on the phone or WhatsApp, you are a bit short and superficial.</li><li>With a smile, tell her that you only want to be friends after you kiss her</li><li>Ask for her number and then wait a day before sending a message.</li></ul><p></p><p>By sending these kinds of mixed signals, she has NO idea what you want and it will only make her think about you more.</p><p>However, there is a BUT to sending mixed signals:</p><p>You shouldn't be elusive for TOO long because the women will start to think you are seriously not interested in her or think you don't know what you want.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>7. Behave differently from other men</b></p><p>What is also striking about mysterious men is that they are all unique in their own way. They don't care what others think or perceive of them.</p><p>People are unable to recognize your behavior because you exhibit stubborn and arbitrary behavior. It sounds more complicated than it is.</p><p>So let me give you an example:</p><p>You are invited to a party that starts at 20:00 in the evening. The majority of the people will be present between 20:00 and 22:00 because this is expected of them. After two hours people will start wondering where you are. They would not be sure if you would come or not.</p><p>They become curious and start calling or texting you. Suddenly you are in the living room without prior notice.</p><p>For the people who have been talking to each other in the same room for three hours, you are a new topic of conversation and a new face.</p><p>Friends will embrace you and greet you exuberantly. Women who don't know you will immediately notice your presence and wonder who it is. You make them curious. Who is that wayward man?</p><p>By behaving slightly differently, you will be noticed much faster by people.</p><p>Make sure that this does not turn into negativity so you will need to choose your moments carefully.</p><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-77930915804649647512021-01-22T16:40:00.004+03:002021-01-22T16:50:44.369+03:005 Essential Steps of Picking Up a Woman<p>Until a few years ago, I used to visit a regular circle of friends almost every Saturday. They were men in their twenties or older. Most of them were single and we would meet to discuss how our week was.</p><p>What struck me was that most of them had a fairly negative outspoken opinion about women. Expired dates were discussed in detail and every time it was screeching and roaring about what we had experienced.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEUjVmZQ91jP3GDrb9ShWCAjtg-vtJJuPSH7JLQD9nseQPmb7DbxcmmnMv8xUA8dqorJmOgv2q0EsGqGGkarDKyHQsxRrCmMXKuV9hP-lH_hmwLfbHExksBXnrplAGJL6eKgeIavQrVPB6/s500/v.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="334" data-original-width="500" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEUjVmZQ91jP3GDrb9ShWCAjtg-vtJJuPSH7JLQD9nseQPmb7DbxcmmnMv8xUA8dqorJmOgv2q0EsGqGGkarDKyHQsxRrCmMXKuV9hP-lH_hmwLfbHExksBXnrplAGJL6eKgeIavQrVPB6/s320/v.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p>Nobody was actually serious. Whether this was due to immaturity or just a fear of hooking up on women, I'll leave that open. But there was also a deeper reason that I went to my group of friends every Saturday. I was so reminding myself that I didn't want to end up like them.</p><p>These friends would spend most of their time talking about how women are bad. To me, according to my opinion is that these friends were actually missing one important thing...that is picking up right women for themselves.</p><p>So in this article today, I will explain how you can pick up a woman on the street, during a night out, within your social network, through online dating or for a long-term relationship.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;"><b>Essential steps of picking up women.</b></h4><div><b><br /></b></div><div>These are questions you will need to ask yourself in order to understand how to pick up women.</div><p><b>1. How Do You Pick Up a Woman You Already Know?</b></p><p>Have you ever considered that you can also pick up women in your direct social network? Men are often unaware of it, but your attractive colleague, your sister's handsome girlfriend, or that single neighbour two doors away can also be seduced.</p><p>Picking up women you already know requires a different approach and it has its pros and cons.</p><p>Some important benefits are:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Social Proof</li></ul><p></p><p>If a woman sees that you are respected by her social network (especially the people she admires), she is more likely to accept you. She will assume that you have to be a nice/good guy because otherwise people - whom she admires so much - wouldn't want to hang out with you.</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Pre-selection</li></ul><p></p><p>You are in the same social network and therefore have to be reliable/okay. Women look at others to judge you. With this, you have already passed the first 'line of defense'.</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>No bitch shield</li></ul><p></p><p>You are known to her. She will be less likely to reject you and take a lot more things from you. For example, an unknown man who suddenly picks her up can expect a slap in the face, you can easily get away with that.</p><p>Possible drawbacks are:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Reputation</li></ul><p></p><p>It is important that you know what you are doing. Picking up famous women by creating false expectations can cause arguments within your social network. Discretion and trust are therefore important in this.</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Friendzone</li></ul><p></p><p>Chances are the women who are in your social network have come to see you as a friendly acquaintance. You are the last person she will expect to have sexual advances from if you have never flirted with her.</p><p>4 Tips to Help You Pick Up Women You Already Know:</p><p>a) Wait for your chances </p><p>Take it slow: picking up women within your social network is a long-term game. There will always be a situation where you can hit on a woman. Create situations where you are alone with her (think of a birthday that goes on until the late hours).</p><p>Come across as a confident, positive and humorous man. Get women to see and flirt with your attractive features.</p><p>b) Know your social network</p><p>Pay attention to the mutual relationship. Don't risk a close friend's relationship by cheating on their girlfriend. Watch the women who are single. Are they open to sexual contact? Do they flirt with you? Watch for green signals.</p><p>c) Work on your reputation</p><p>The best chance of getting on the radar of women is by showing attractive behavior. Make sure you become popular within your social network. Not only in women but also in men. Social status is extremely important. So make sure that you are well placed in the group.</p><p>d) Isolate</p><p>As said before, discretion and trust are extremely important. Don't tell your group that you slept with their friend. It will damage her reputation. Single hot women will think twice about going to bed with you.</p><p>In addition, no woman with self-respect will respond to your sexual advances in front of her girlfriends and friends.</p><p>If it happens that you notice that she is open to sexual contact, you communicate that this remains your secret and that it is none of the other people's business regarding on what you do.</p><p>Make sure you give her an excuse to go with you to some other places or just find a place where you two are alone.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. How do you pick up a woman on the street?</b></p><p>Why on earth would you want to pick up women on the street? Well because it works damn well! How often do you see an attractive woman walking down the street and you think to yourself `wow what a hot thing!`.</p><p>Next time, how about talking to her instead of just saying a naughty thought?</p><p>You may never have thought about it, but all those single women in your town who roam the shopping streets during the day are the same women who want to kiss and dance with you on the weekend (and much more;).</p><p>5 Reasons Why You Want to Start Picking Up Women During the Day: </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>You work on your fear of approach (out of the comfort zone )</li><li>You learn to become good at establishing and having conversations with women</li><li>You surprise women in a positive sense because they don't experience it often (no competition)</li><li>You overwhelm women, which makes them less likely to increase their `bitch shield`</li><li>You can do it at any time of the day and you are not bound by a place or time.</li></ul><p></p><p>Picking up women during the day is something every man can learn. You can quickly get better at day gaming by taking the following into account:</p><p>a) Be spontaneous and live in the moment. </p><p>With day gaming you are not bound to a fixed place. Actually, you could address a woman anywhere. Make use of this spontaneity. As soon as you see a nice woman, walk up to it, grab her attention and say something that comes to mind.</p><p>Don't worry about what other people think. Flirting with women during the day is simply exciting. If you haven't done it for a while, you will notice that the adrenaline rushes through your body. You feel uncomfortable and make up countless excuses not to have to.</p><p>“Besides, what would all those people think of me?”. Everyone experiences these kinds of irrational thoughts. But most people walking down the street don't think anything at all. Everyone is busy with themselves.</p><p>Always respond playfully and flirtatiously: when addressing a woman on the street, it is important that you smile and communicate open body language. No woman on the street is waiting for a creep with malicious intent.</p><p>Open her up with something like “Hey! May I tell you something...and don't worry, I'm not going to sell you a subscription. And then you tell her that she has a nice appearance, etc.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. How Do You Pick Up a Woman for a One Night Stand?</b></p><p>How do you pick up a woman on the same night? </p><p>We all feel like it sometimes…meeting a woman on a date and going to your bedroom the same evening for a wild night. </p><p>Nightlife gives you a huge number of opportunities to meet attractive single women. Women in nightclubs and cafes are often open to male contact. Why else would they spend hours doing their makeup and looking so attractive?</p><p>In order to pick up women while going out, it is important to consider the following factors:</p><p>a) Don't go to town too early</p><p>It is very unlikely that women will be open to a sexual adventure at the beginning of the evening. People need some time to shake off the hectic workday. They feel a bit uncomfortable for the first few hours. The afternoon is a good time to visit the catering industry because most of them are busy partying.</p><p>b) Self-entertainment</p><p>Do not let the environment negatively affect your mood. It can be a bit uncomfortable when you just enter a pub and people immediately bump into you.</p><p>Focus on having fun with friends. Having a drink often works to get rid of the first nerves. Having a drink can make you gain the confidence to start a conversation. And also it makes women look much prettier. </p><p>c) Approaching a woman</p><p>The later the darks get, the more tipsy people will be. The night is nearing its end and many women are open to male contact.</p><p>Women are taken into an emotional moment when the night continues to its end. So at this time, you may talk to her and show your intentions. What you say to her is not that important as long as you are leading and dominant.</p><p>Please note this:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>As soon as you speak to her, look her deep in the eye</li><li>Keep your voice low when speaking to her.</li><li>Be physical from the moment you start talking to her.</li><li>Take a step back as if there's nothing wrong with a rejection</li></ul><p></p><p>When it clicks you will notice it soon enough. As soon as a woman finds you interesting, she will be interested in you more.</p><p>Not only will she ask you questions, but she will also show non-verbal interest (enlarged pupils, high voice, looking carefully, touching, etc.)</p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. How Do You Pick Up a Woman Online?</b></p><p>The arrival of popular dating apps such as Tinder and Badoo brings many possibilities. The dating apps are designed to get in touch with attractive ladies quickly. And that is a favorable development for the guys who are yet to get girlfriends. After all, you can cast a fishing rod from your lazy desk chair to see if there are any female interested parties.</p><p>Dating women online is also a safe way of communicating as you have all the peace and time to brainstorm about your messages. In order to pick up women online, it is of course important to know which sites and dating apps are popular today.</p><p>When it comes to dating online, first of all, your online dating profile must be in order. This is your business card and where it all starts.</p><p>Have you uploaded unclear photos or not written a word on your profile? Then the chance that you will get a response from any woman is much smaller. So it is a must to update your profile.</p><p>Sending messages is another important part where many men with online dating go wrong.</p><p>Do not endlessly chat with her before she agrees to come to a date. Your goal is to interest her in such a way that she is open to a date.</p><p>It is important that you invest some time online to generate trust and appeal in her. However, there is a side note to this.</p><p>If you overdo it and get carried away in the enthusiasm of your female match, it can turn against you like a boomerang. It may then happen that she loses interest in you.</p><p>Curiosity can give way to predictability and boredom.</p><p>You have played all your cards and nothing more interesting to say. Eventually she cuts off contact and you still don't have a date with her.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. How Do You Pick Up a Woman For a Relationship?</b></p><p>To be fair, if you've had a one-night stand that doesn't mean she's your girlfriend right away. But sex is important to get her as a friend.</p><p>How do you make her eventually become your girlfriend? What things are important in picking up a woman for a relationship?</p><p>To begin with, sex is an important part of this process.</p><p>"What's sex got to do with getting into a relationship?"</p><p>Sex is the biggest form of investment you can make on a woman and you also make her fall in love with you faster. As a rule of thumb, you could persist in having sex with her within three dates.</p><p>Of course, this doesn't mean that if you haven't had sex with her on the fourth date, then you can't get her as a girlfriend. No, sexual intimacy creates a lot of attraction and the feeling that you have known someone for a long time. It makes it a lot easier to get her crazy about you.</p><p>In order to eventually get her as a girlfriend, it must of course not only be about sex. It's important that you let her qualify and invest after sex.</p><p>You can do the following things together:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Let her cook for you</li><li>Go out together (walking dogs, day at the beach, etc.)</li><li>Introduce her to your friends or family</li></ul><p></p><p>Also. it is important to think about what you want with her. Decide whether you want her as a free-range or as a friend. If you prefer her for free, it is important that you don't see her more than once a week. Otherwise, you can create wrong expectations.</p><p>Make sure you also keep your own life. Live as casual as possible. Never neglect your close friends or hobbies.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-77937772865627834692021-01-21T15:09:00.001+03:002021-01-21T15:09:07.396+03:0014 Subtle Flirting Signs From Women Every Man Should Know<p>According to studies, it has shown that men always have a disadvantage when it comes to knowing if women are flirting with them. Also, keep in mind that many men suffer from fear of approach and the fear of rejection from women.</p><p><br /></p><p>Men tend to ignore most of the subtle flirting that women make. Anyway, they are called subtle for a purpose so it wont be possible for any man to understand them unless you continue reading what we have prepared for you.</p><p><br /></p><p>On this article, you will learn how to recognize the subtle signals that women send to men as a sign of flirting.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbp8ZEq4X70FNJehNa1BAWw-9keVicPQZ2NB7CGYreCAdZaxk5iw4FcUtm2v0L2SQJoue2Z9Ov37Hm3C2eGq0eBEYLGp2dpLt4GqeFl7_T_5r0QrPfF-v1Ws0CCOigV4x6iG2kD2nequ_s/s750/hj.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="750" height="342" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbp8ZEq4X70FNJehNa1BAWw-9keVicPQZ2NB7CGYreCAdZaxk5iw4FcUtm2v0L2SQJoue2Z9Ov37Hm3C2eGq0eBEYLGp2dpLt4GqeFl7_T_5r0QrPfF-v1Ws0CCOigV4x6iG2kD2nequ_s/w640-h342/hj.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><h4 style="text-align: left;">14 Subtle Flirt Signs From Women Every Man Should Know</h4><p><br /></p><p><b>1. She raises her eyebrows.</b></p><p>One of the most famous women of all time who perfected eyebrow flirting was Marilyn Monroe. She knew better than anyone on how to seduce men with her body, especially her eyebrows.</p><p>But her non-verbal flirtation signals and facial expressions had an enchanting effect on men. The iconic sex symbol even had an affair with US President John F. Kennedy. </p><p>Scientific research shows that raising the female eyebrows serves another evolutionary function. Women are able to widen their eyes by raising their eyebrows and eyelids.</p><p>So when talking to a woman, pay attention on her face when you are talking to her. If she looks at you with raised eyebrows and a smile, you can assume she's interested in you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. She stares at you.</b></p><p><br /></p><p>Imagine you enter into a club or a bar. Then while ordering a Martini, you notice several women staring at you. "Are they staring at me or not?" You have no idea whether they are flirting with you so you decide not to pay any attention.</p><p>When people meet for the first time, they make a quick judgment about each other based on what they see. Eye contact with a woman is one of the most obvious ways to find out if a woman is interested in you, without even exchanging a word with her.</p><p>So, when does it become clear to a man that a woman is staring at him and wants something from him?</p><p>According to American psychologists at Webster University of Illinois, they came up with a hypothesis for this question.</p><p>The research showed that most men are unable to understand the message of female eye contact. In almost all cases, male subjects did not pay attention to observe female eye contact.</p><p>If a woman wants to get a man's attention she will have to stare at him for at least 2 to 3 seconds. According to psychologists, this look is long enough to be recognized by a man as a subtle flirtation signal.</p><p>As soon as a woman has caught your attention with eye contact, she will often combine this with raised eyebrows or a (shy) smile.</p><p>This is the subtle flirtation gesture that her non-verbal message is meant for you - and nothing else.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Dilating her pupils.</b></p><p>What part of the male body can grow up to three times the size when raised by a woman? And no, don't say it's your genitals. We are talking about your pupils here. It turns out that enlarged pupils are associated with emotional stimuli.</p><p>Research has shown that when men watch pornographic movies, their pupils dilate as much as three times as large. In women, the pupils appear to enlarge when they are exposed to photographs of mothers and babies for extended periods.</p><p>Babies and young children also have larger pupils than adults. Constantly dilating their pupils makes babies appear more attractive (cuter) and therefore receive more adult attention.</p><p>This is also why baby dolls and popular children's toys often have large pupils. </p><p>Now back to big pupils and attractiveness...</p><p>Have you sometimes heard people say that you should look into the other person's eyes when you talk?</p><p>Actually, the thing they look at is the pupil rather than the eye itself. The pupil size of both men and women appears to be affected by the general state of arousal when they speak with others.</p><p>You read it right!</p><p>It turns out that a woman's pupil size changes when she looks at something that stimulates her emotionally.</p><p>This psychological trick is also used in the advertising world. People seem to find fashion models more attractive when their pupils are enlarged. This proved to be an effective way to increase sales of women's cosmetics.</p><p>Are you curious if your date finds you attractive?</p><p>Then pay more attention to her pupils. A woman who is attracted to a man will automatically dilate her pupils without even realizing it. You often only feel that you are communicating deeply with a woman when you look her eyes in the eyes.</p><p><b>4. The position of her eyelids.</b></p><p>If someone lowers their eyelids while talking, this says something about dominance or irritation towards the other. Researchers have found that different types of monkeys make exactly the same gestures when it comes to domination and annoyance. If a woman pinches her eyelids briefly while looking at you, this may indicate suspicion. She doesn't trust you or totally disagrees with your opinion.</p><p>Of course, she may have some dirt in her lenses, so don't be shocked if a woman frowns or lowers her eyelids.</p><p>What else can female eyelids tell you?</p><p>A woman who is flirting with you will move her lids and lashes up and down faster than she normally does.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. Tense nostrils.</b></p><p>Have you ever watched a woman's nose? Here I do not mean the length or the volume of her nose. Take a look at a woman's nostrils when you're on a date. The nostrils can tell you something about the state of arousal.</p><p>If a woman has tense nostrils, it could mean she's excited and attracted to you.</p><p>Does she have tense nostrils, does she look piercingly and alternately in the eyes and at your lips?</p><p>Obviously, she is unconsciously preparing for the next physical step. It's a sign that she likes you and that she wants to be kissed by you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. Look at her lips.</b></p><p>Do you suspect she likes you? Then look at her lips. A woman's lips can communicate roughly two things when it comes to nonverbal body language:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Voltage</li><li>Sexual interest</li></ul><p></p><p>This is because the lips are an erogenous zone that is very sensitive to touch and contact.</p><p>If a woman places her tongue on the corner of her mouth and then sexually licks her upper lip, she is consciously or unconsciously wanting to let you know that she is interested in you.</p><p>It could also be that she has chapped lips and doesn't have Lip Gloss to hand, so don't rush over the table to kiss her in such a situation.</p><p>Often times you will see women sending these multiple signals when it comes to their lips:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Applying lip gloss every half hour (watch for when she comes back from the toilet)</li><li>Rubbing her fingers on her lips</li><li>Biting her lips or wet her lips</li><li>Playing with a straw of her drink</li></ul><p></p><p>Applying lip gloss once may not say much, but if she shows other subtle flirt signals from this post at the same time, then you know this woman is attracted to you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>7. Playing with her fingers.</b></p><p>A woman who is attracted to you will subconsciously use her fingers to caress her erogenous zones. If she is caressing her lips, hands, neck, or collarbone, then she wants to send a flirting signal that she wants you. This is often an effective way for a woman to draw your attention to these physical areas.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>8. Leaning and touching.</b></p><p>You are in a packed club and you have hardly any space. Suddenly there is a tall guy with a pungent smell of sweat in front of you. You feel uncomfortable because it is in your own space!</p><p>Your aura is the personal space you need to feel good.</p><p>Every person needs about twenty to forty centimeters of free space to feel comfortable. If someone gets too close that we don't like, we feel attacked and panic. But an attractive woman who invades your aura and rubs your ass leaves you in ecstasy.</p><p>If a woman takes every opportunity to touch you or leans in constantly, then you know she's comfortable with you.</p><p>Do not freeze in such a situation, but make good use of this moment. Touch her too and see how far you can physically escalate it.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>9. Exposing the wrist</b></p><p>Did you know that a woman can also send subtle flirting signals with her wrists? A slack wrist or the constant exposing of the wrists can be a sign of submission or vulnerability. Both women and gay men tend to do this when they are with someone they find attractive.</p><p>You also often see this on dates with hot women holding their cigarette with a twisted and exposed wrist.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>10. She crosses her legs.</b></p><p>The famous scene from Basic Instinct movie in which Sharon Stone wears no underwear and crosses her legs is etched in the memory of many men. </p><p>The lead actress did this for one simple reason: The male police officers became completely confused and were no longer able to question her effectively.</p><p>Are you on a date with a woman and not sure if she likes you? Look at the position of her legs!</p><p>When a woman crosses her legs, she exposes a large part of her thighs. With this, she quickly builds up sexual tension. This is a particularly good sign if her top leg is facing you.</p><p>A woman can also stroke her lower legs to draw attention to her legs even more. Just be careful not to stare at her attractive legs for too long. </p><p><br /></p><p><b>11. She's lying to you</b></p><p>A woman can be a bit shy if she likes you or is in love with you. To put it in context, by lying I mean a lie for your own good. She won't blatantly lie to you so that you realize she is a pathological liar.</p><p>On a first or second date, people naturally want to present themselves as well as possible. If you were to ask a woman how many bed partners she has had in her life, chances are she's going to lie about it.</p><p>She doesn't want to be seen as sexually dissolute. The motivation for men and women to lie is often different:</p><p></p><blockquote><p>A man lies to appear more powerful, more interesting, and more successful to someone else. A woman lies mainly to protect the feelings of another or to make others feel better about themselves.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>Did you catch her in a little lie that is not harmful? Then don't go into it. Remember that she is lying to impress you. She wants you to like her!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>12. She makes mirrored movements.</b></p><p>Do you notice that your date is constantly doing the same body movements as yours? Does she also laugh when you scream with laughter?</p><p>Good news!</p><p>She subconsciously registers and picks up your posture and movements. People who mirror each other feel intuitively connected to the other and quickly bond with each other. Mirroring is a good technique to use when flirting with women.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>13. Her voice gets faster or higher.</b></p><p>Another way to tell if a woman likes you or is flirting with you is to listen to the tone and speed of her voice. If you are on a date with a woman and you notice that she speaks very quickly or swallows her words, she may be nervous or experiencing (sexual) tension.</p><p>Research shows that there is a relationship between a woman's pitch and the period when she is most fertile. It turns out that during this period men find the female voice the most irresistible.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>14. She giggles or laughs at you</b></p><p>How do you know if a woman is flirting with you? Have you never noticed that women giggle or laugh more often when they like you?</p><p>A woman who likes you or has a crush on you will often not giggle when she sees you. She smiles purely to make you feel good.</p><p>Women can laugh at your most stupid jokes that are actually not funny at all. At such a moment it doesn't matter what you say, she likes everything that comes out of your mouth.</p><p><br /></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-35598033348637027232021-01-20T13:54:00.001+03:002021-01-20T16:00:36.189+03:006 Secrets Women Want But Never Will Admit<p>Have you ever wondered what women want? Surely. It is the question that sooner or later will occupy every man.</p><p>What does a woman look for in a man? Is it about money? Could it be muscle mass or height? Or qualities such as humor and intelligence?</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyZun8zTFYxGhjG2lcvwtfcku7S2Kgfd9vopgIsf9S56WvfkZOMT_vk9IimA73C7OW3NADt5V7ovJKEVLgWUIqLzSw6qCrA0DGK0TeIWyu7ug0Hame103G8e-Biv54VYSdIVwW9veaOa0H/s1200/re.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="630" data-original-width="1200" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyZun8zTFYxGhjG2lcvwtfcku7S2Kgfd9vopgIsf9S56WvfkZOMT_vk9IimA73C7OW3NADt5V7ovJKEVLgWUIqLzSw6qCrA0DGK0TeIWyu7ug0Hame103G8e-Biv54VYSdIVwW9veaOa0H/w400-h210/re.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p>Every woman has her own taste when it comes to wanting a man. But also there are general things that all women would want from any man.</p><p>In this article, we will take a closer look at the secrets women want but will never admit to you.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">6 Secrets Women Want But Never Will Admit</h4><div><br /></div><p>I am now going to answer the question of what a woman generally wants in her daily life and what the most important needs are.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>1. Safety</b></p><p>Let's go back to prehistoric times for a moment. Then, as now, women were on average much smaller and weaker than men. But at that time there was much more danger lurking. A woman and her descendants could become victims of predators and tribal violence. A woman at the time depended on a strong man with a stable personality for her safety and protection. It could mean the difference between survival and eradication of the genes.</p><p>Therefore, a woman needed the support and protection of a man who had both raw strength and social standing within a group. If a woman was in a relationship with a man of higher social status, she would also receive a higher social status (in addition to safety and protection).</p><p>This elevated status also gave her automatic access to all possible resources within a tribe, which in turn increased the chance of survival.</p><p>A woman can tell if you have a higher social status by looking at whether you get respect from your colleagues, for example, and how you are treated by your friends. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/top-5-reasons-why-women-reject-men.html">Why women reject men</a>]</p><p>Of course, nowadays women no longer have to fear dangerous predators, but social unrest and violence are always lurking. Think about the rising crime or an economic crisis.</p><p>You can communicate the feeling of security to a woman in several ways: </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Financial independence</li><li>Social status</li><li>Take responsibility</li><li>Stable personality</li><li>Dedication and loyalty</li><li>Physical strength</li><li>Determination</li></ul><p></p><p>A woman wants to feel like she can fall back on you when she needs it. The feeling that you are there for her when she is sick or gets older.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. A Woman Wants You To Take Responsibility</b></p><p>A man who takes responsibility and dares to make decisions is self-assured. All the men I know who are very successful with women all have one thing in common: They have a healthy dose of self-confidence.</p><p>Confidence is by far one of the most attractive qualities you can have as a man. A confident man is comfortable with who he is. As a result, they are also often strong in social interactions with women.</p><p>A confident man is not concerned with a woman's opinion. They are steadfast and do not allow themselves to be fooled by others. They know exactly what they want. And this is why confident men are attractive to women. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-keep-10-attracted-to-you.html">How to make a woman attracted to you</a>]</p><p>Are you a little insecure and do you lack self-confidence when it comes to picking up women? Here are 5 tips for you to increase your self-confidence:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Don't be led by outside pressure (disconnect yourself from your ego)</li><li>Fight your fears (normalize your fears)</li><li>Get started (practice certain skills)</li><li>Surround yourself with positive, trustworthy people</li><li>Work on your body (exercise increases self-confidence)</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. A Woman Wants to Feel Loved</b></p><p>For a woman, love and appreciation equals to feeling satisfied in a relationship. It is especially the small gestures that come from your heart that a woman loves. While it may be hard for a man to imagine, buying a bunch of flowers, washing the dishes, putting the children to bed, or helping to clean up are often small acts that are extremely important to a woman.</p><p>Show her that you think about her and that you appreciate her. When a woman feels loved, she will relax and open up and will also be more likely to take things from you.</p><p>Also, try to listen more often. A woman feels emotionally supported when you listen to her. It has been scientifically proven that men use 2000 words per day. A man mainly talks about facts and how something can be achieved.</p><p>Women, on the other hand, use an average of 7,000 words a day to communicate verbally. They use language as a way to express stress, create intimacy, and form a social bond with someone.</p><p>You can make a woman feel loved by using these tips.</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Show affection (holding hands or hugging)</li><li>Make eye contact while listening</li><li>Be by her side when she's angry with someone</li><li>Affirm her feelings</li><li>Offer help if you feel it is necessary</li><li>Show an interest in her daily life</li><li>Schedule something romantic every now and then</li></ul><p></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>4. A Woman Wants to Chase Her Dreams</b></p><p>Are you happy with regularity and can you describe your weekly activities on one beer mat? Don't let your life get too boring. </p><p>Many men love structure and regularity. A woman too, up to a point. Women always tell me when I go to date with them what they wanted to do with their lives. Traveling around the world, a career abroad or maybe three or four children, and living on a farm, I have heard all kinds of stories.</p><p>And what struck me is that women crave passion and want to make something out of their lives. A woman wants to live a life with a man that is worth fighting for.</p><p>A woman is looking for a man who will add something to her life. You won't be able to give her this if you watch TV for hours every day and only play computer games.</p><p>I'm not saying you should live like a James Bond, but doing something exciting and exhilarating together every now and then can't hurt the relationship at all. Just make your life interesting and let a woman be a part of it.</p><p>You can make your relationship interesting and exciting by:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Watch television for a maximum of one hour a day</li><li>Go on vacation at least twice a year</li><li>Plan short city trips</li><li>Try out new sports or hobbies together</li><li>Learn a new language or skill</li><li>Provide more variety in your sex life</li><li>Get a pet</li><li>Stop procrastinating</li><li>Read interesting books</li><li>Redesign the house or garden together</li></ul><p></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>5. A Woman Seeks a Man With Social Skills</b></p><p>If you pay attention to men who are good at picking up on women, you will see that they are lord and masters of social interaction. They openly flirt with women, seek attention, tease them properly, and know just how to make a woman feel special.</p><p>They possess a range of social skills that are extremely important for seducing women successfully. That said, women are much more sensitive when it comes to picking up on people's emotions.</p><p>Did you know that the dreaded Israeli customs are making good use of this to counter-terrorism?</p><p>Women customs officers appear to be better able to recognize feelings and tensions in newly arrived passengers. This shows that women place great value on social skills. [Read: <a href="https://www.lovedoyen.com/2016/09/how-to-develop-unshakable-confidence-on.html">How to gain confidence with women</a>]</p><p>If your thoughts and beliefs are not in line with your non-verbal body language, women will see through it very quickly.</p><p>Use these tips to help you improve your social skills:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Be aware of your own behavior</li><li>Watch your posture</li><li>Introduce yourself to others</li><li>Let the other finish</li><li>Be honest without hurting the other</li><li>Radiate love (smile, be kind)</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. A Woman Craves Desire</b></p><p>What's the biggest difference between the relationship with your partner and the relationship you have with other people? The difference is that you will always have sex with your partner.</p><p>Women want to feel desired by their husbands. She wants you to see her as a female sexually attractive being. This craving is so extreme in women that they even have fantasies of rape in their dreams.</p><p>One of her deepest secrets may be that she is found so irresistibly attractive by a man that he can no longer control himself. Realize that this is a fantasy that has NOTHING to do with forced sex in real life as the woman in the fantasy is always in control of the 'rape'.</p><p>The bottom line is that women want passion and fire in their relationship. Do things that turn her on and try something new sexually on a regular basis.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-90504369544669932612021-01-19T14:33:00.003+03:002021-01-19T14:33:27.044+03:007 Irresistible Traits of a Real Alpha Male<p>Most men would like to be an alpha male. An alpha male is a person who is in optimum form. He has attained self-realization and what is left for them is just finding the inner fulfillment in life.</p><p>In every man there is an alpha man, only it will never show itself for some. Alpha male is all about the masculine traits that differentiate a man from the other gender.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmDInUo_-0SR8FZtPwpn22OBiNaz6A4_dBaAKf-CoxLTvlz7qbNIOcv-pl4rL7XB6fDUfzuiuOVIJLVUjCy_0cX7QIg5u5JzUMOScPj8ujIZw-k2UxfzTXuR7zcAUqsKKY5fT3Qc5BZOqi/s800/pha.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="534" data-original-width="800" height="428" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmDInUo_-0SR8FZtPwpn22OBiNaz6A4_dBaAKf-CoxLTvlz7qbNIOcv-pl4rL7XB6fDUfzuiuOVIJLVUjCy_0cX7QIg5u5JzUMOScPj8ujIZw-k2UxfzTXuR7zcAUqsKKY5fT3Qc5BZOqi/w640-h428/pha.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><p>All women love an Alpha male because of their irresistible appeal which makes women fall in love with.</p><p>In this article, I will explain to you the most important irresistible traits and characteristics of a real alpha man.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">7 Irresistible Traits of a Real Alpha Male</h4><p>The following are character traits of an Alpha male that you should know</p><p><br /></p><p><b>1. He's Not Fixated on Validation</b></p><p>Seeking validation means that needy feeling one has when they have to be accepted by others and feel good within your social circle. Everyone suffers from it at some point. People with low self-esteem and low self-confidence often have this a lot. These are people pleasers who want to please other people because otherwise, they are afraid of not being liked anymore.</p><p>However, a true alpha male doesn't need the approval of others in order to feel good about himself. He has rock-solid confidence and laughs at validation.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. He Dares to Make Mistakes and Go for Success</b></p><p>Becoming an alpha man is not something you can become overnight. Yes, there are men who appear to be born with the right mix. These 'naturals' have many alpha qualities without ever thinking about them. Most men are not so lucky. They will have to work very hard to become an alpha male.</p><p>A real alpha male dares to make mistakes in his life. He grabs opportunities that he can seize regardless of the outcome. The day when you don't make any more mistakes is the day when you won't learn anything anymore.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. He Goes Against the Current</b></p><p>Do you know that feeling that something is on the tip of your tongue but you don't dare to speak it out? Developing and expressing your own opinion is a difficult task for many people. </p><p>Unfortunately, we also have the opposite. There are people who would just have to have an opinion about everything without having any understanding of it.</p><p>Alpha male in this situation are people who will not always ride with the majority of the opinions. They just believe in themselves to an extent to where they just feel that they are not supposed to follow or accept anything that is suggested to them. They always have the will to either reject or accept something.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. He Has Communication Skills</b></p><p>An alpha man also has good communication skills. Alpha male often speaks slowly with authority. They never speak in a hurry and are always in control of the conversation. An alpha man is not afraid to talk to and bind people. Moreover, people addressed by an Alpha male tend to be happy when they are addressed by him.</p><p>He is not afraid to strike up a conversation and speak up. In this way, there will be people who will be against him, but he doesn't care at all, and people who are for him and will join him.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. He is humourous</b></p><p>An alpha man has a great sense of humor. He can laugh at things and makes people around him laugh too. That is why people like to be around him because they will certainly have a good time.</p><p>An alpha male also communicates with good humor and is normally focused on the fun and positive things in life This always makes him contagious and it makes women feel good to be around him.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. He Has His Own Frame of Reference</b></p><p>The alpha man has strong norms and values. He is open about this and will not just drop it. This means that he does not just take things from the masses, but rather draws his own conclusions.</p><p>The weaker man, on the other hand, prefers to walk safely behind the majority, because he himself does not have his own opinion.</p><p><br /></p><p>Take the former US president Donald Trump as an example. People find him insane, superficial or genius. But no matter how much you disagree with Trump's politically incorrect positions, you just can't deny that he stands for his principles and doesn't deviate an inch from them. You hate him or love him. He doesn't care about criticism and is a thorn in the coat for the established order.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>7. He is Physically Fit</b></p><p>What you often see is that an alpha male is not only mentally strong but also has a strong physical. And that is not surprising when you think about it. An alpha man is very concerned with his health, body and healthy eating. Sports also provide structure and discipline. This in turn helps them to be more focused in achieving their goals and ambitions.</p><p><br /></p><p>So, are you an Alpha male?</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-45687297271113543212021-01-18T11:52:00.005+03:002021-01-18T12:46:05.811+03:006 Dangers of Hopelessly Falling In Love and How To Overcome It<p>Have you ever considered what falling in love really is and why people fall hopelessly in love?</p><p>Are you madly in love with someone? In the event that you're madly in love, it's easy for you to mess up and lose yourself in the end.</p><p>I remember back then when one of my friend was madly in love with a woman and it was hard for him to focus on other things surrounding him. This led to him to lose focus and sadly, what he wanted he never succeeded in getting.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNwgokkrlsWlEn2W9mSO6wMIkbrQna-3iZJVRIijPhOcJlUbBhcSB9FlkWeQ9QmoWLjoP7i5jR8gZbmcyc_K-9aB4NeGPAWss4xTH0jPq0qwY0Q6XUQ84Ze94womGpwVFlN0KBnEc2bH_a/s1600/fd.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="360" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNwgokkrlsWlEn2W9mSO6wMIkbrQna-3iZJVRIijPhOcJlUbBhcSB9FlkWeQ9QmoWLjoP7i5jR8gZbmcyc_K-9aB4NeGPAWss4xTH0jPq0qwY0Q6XUQ84Ze94womGpwVFlN0KBnEc2bH_a/w640-h360/fd.png" width="640" /></a></div><p>In this article, you will learn to recognize the dangers that lurk when you are madly in love with a woman.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Why Being Madly In Love Can Ruin Your Chances To Get Her</b></p><p>Being in love with someone can ruin your chances of you getting her. It is often the case when a person in love allows his actions to be determined by his feelings which can later go sideways.</p><p>One thing you should know is that a person's feelings are very strong so his or her actions can quickly go wrong.</p><p>The actions of a person in love can go wrong especially with someone who has no mutual feelings.</p><p>Being in love usually causes you to chase someone because you are afraid of losing that person. But sadly this often has the opposite effect. Chasing someone makes you desperate.</p><p>The more attracted you are to someone, the more you need contact with them and have confirmation.</p><p>Men who rarely date and have few women friends in their life will start to show a behavior that they believe to have the right to be accepted by the opposite sex when they are madly in love with them.</p><p>For most women, such behaviour is unaccepted to them and they get repelled most of the time.</p><p>Seeking too much contact and trying to get confirmation actually makes you look insecure to her.</p><p>If you are very attracted to or in love with someone, think before doing anything, otherwise, you may be doing something that appears unattractive.</p><p>When it happens that you have madly fallen in love, there are stages which one goes through during the process.</p><h4 style="text-align: left;">The Three Stages of Love</h4><p><b>Stage 1: Lust</b></p><p>Lust is powered by the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen. Contrary to popular belief, testosterone is not limited to men only. This hormone is also present in women - albeit in smaller quantities. It has been scientifically shown testosterone plays an important role in the sexual libido of women. It makes us feel like having sex with another of the opposite sex.</p><p>Lust is mainly triggered when estrogen and testosterone hormones increase in men and women. These hormones not only increase our sex drive, but also serves as fuel and motivation for the search for a potential partner.</p><p><b>Stage 1 features:</b></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>We actively look for a potential partner</li><li>We select potential partners on the basis of external characteristics</li><li>We have an instinctive desire for sexual satisfaction</li></ul><p></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Stage 2: Romantic Attraction</b></p><p>This is the real love phase. The moment people fall in love, they can't think of anything else. We lose our appetites, need less sleep, and prefer to spend our time daydreaming about the person we are in love with.</p><p>At this stage, a group of neurotransmitters (monoamines) play an important role:</p><p>Dopamine (also activated by cocaine or nicotine)</p><p>Noradrenaline (Also known as adrenaline: makes us sweat and make our hearts beat faster)</p><p>Serotonin (greatly affects our mood, sleep, appetite and sexual activity)</p><p>These neurotransmitters increase alertness and excitement in our body when we are strongly attracted to another.</p><p><b>Stage 2 features:</b></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Emotional dependence</li><li>Physical complaints (dry mouth, palpitations, sweating)</li><li>Blind to the negative sides of the person you are in love with</li><li>Obsessive behavior and jealousy</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Stage 3: Adhesion</h4><p>Romantic attraction eventually turns to affection the moment love is returned. People cannot stay in stage 2 forever because otherwise, they would no longer be able to function properly. From a biological perspective, stage 3 is meant to keep a man and woman together until they have children together. However, the use of contraception (contraception) usually disrupt (or delays) this process.</p><p>2 Important hormones that play an important role at this stage:</p><p>Vasopressin: This hormone plays an important role in monogamy and social behavior. It ensures that men stay with their partners and help raise and protect their child in the early years of life.</p><p>Oxytocin: This hormone is partly responsible with Prolactin for a mother's care behavior. It helps to strengthen the strong bond between mother and child. It also ensures that milk production starts. In addition, it helps to strengthen the bond between man and woman when they are intimate with each other.</p><p><b>Stage 3 features:</b></p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>A strong bond with your partner</li><li>Sense of well-being and social comfort</li><li>Separation anxiety and social discomfort in the absence of a partner</li><li>The urge to start a family (procreation)</li></ul><p>Now that you have learned to recognize the three stages of love, you also understand why falling in love is so intense. In the brain, an increase in various hormones and brain substances takes place. These all have their own function. Among other things, they ensure that we go through fire for our potential partner. After all, without strong bonding, there will be no successful reproduction and survival of the child.</p><p>But this obsessive feeling of being hopelessly in love can seriously ruin our chances with a woman.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Dangers of hopelessly falling in love</h4><p><b>1. You Get Stressed</b></p><p>That euphoric feeling you experience when you are in love with someone is the same effect that occurs in the brains of people addicted to drugs such as cocaine. According to neuropsychological scientists, rejection by a potential partner has a serious effect on your motivation and reward system. When you are in love with someone, then that someone does not reciprocate the love back to you, then you automatically became obsessed and stressed. The feeling is the same as the users who have restrained themselves from taking some drugs.</p><p>There are some ways on how to relieve yourself from getting stressed. You can do the following</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Exercise (good for body and mind)</li><li>Look for distraction with your friends</li><li>Date other women too (and have sex with them!)</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Loss of Appetite</b></p><p>A loss of appetite is a typical physical effect that occurs when you fall in love with someone. Falling in love not only makes your head spin but also your body has no need for food. You feel no importance of getting a bite down your throat and you get nauseous just thinking about it.</p><p>The substances dopamine and noradrenaline suppress your hunger when you are in love. Eating a little less for a day or two is no problem at all, but if you continue this 'love diet' for weeks, then you have a problem.</p><p>So how do you ensure that you keep your energy level up to standard every day?</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Commit yourself to finish a plate of food</li><li>Stick to your old diet (breakfast and dinner)</li><li>Find out things that you like and that will work up your appetite</li><li>Cook together with others (which makes you associate eating and cooking with something positive)</li></ul><p></p><p><b>3. You Lose Focus</b></p><p>Are you hopelessly in love with someone? Then there is a good chance that you will lose your focus and have more concentration problems. People who are overly in love lose their sharpness. They become obsessed with that one person and prefer to be with that person all day long.</p><p>To be honest, love can really mess up your daily life. You get an increase in dopamine in your brain the moment you see your love again. This creates that euphoric feeling. Having such a feeling also has its own issues. One is that your judgment became affected and you will be unlikely to make concrete decisions.</p><p>To avoid this, you can try implementing the following measures</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Do not react from emotions (but take your time before saying something or making decisions)</li><li>Don't put her on a throne piece (acknowledge her negative sides too)</li><li>Do not become a YES but stand behind your principles (stay critical of yourself and her)</li><li>Don't lose sight of your friends (sooner or later you'll need them)</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. Fears</b></p><p>Everyone recognizes the fear of losing someone. Especially when you are madly in love with someone and you start to see that she doesn't like you that way. At such a moment you can sink through the ground.</p><p>Hopeless love causes your testosterone level to drop. This can even lead to various issues such as panic and sweat attacks, depression, decrease in energy, less sex drive among others.</p><p>You can overcome these feelings by:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Consuming mineral zinc which is indispensable for a good testosterone balance (meat, eggs, shellfish, etc.)</li><li>Strength training (this is the way to increase your testosterone level)</li><li>Healthy lifestyle (no smoking, drinking less alcohol, etc.)</li><li>Check your stress (meditation exercises, constructive thinking, and putting things into perspective)</li><li>Date multiple women (and don't get fixated on one woman until you're in a relationship with her)</li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. Sleep Problems</b></p><p>Hopeless infatuation can give any person sleepless nights. You always look forward to the moment when you can meet her again. You forget all the other things that matter.</p><p>The uncertainty literally drives you crazy and the hormones and neurotransmitters make you don't sleep a wink. Side effects such as sleeping problems are not healthy for your body and mind.</p><p>Tips to combat sleep problems when in love include the following:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Read a good book to change your mind</li><li>Minimize light in the bedroom</li><li>Avoid sleeping times during the day</li><li>Do not drink caffeine or other energy-boosting drinks</li><li>Listen to ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response) videos on Youtube</li></ul><p></p><p>Well. This are some of the issues that occurs when you are madly in love with someone and how to tackle them easily.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-47030046759944037492021-01-17T08:00:00.098+03:002021-01-23T12:42:15.046+03:00Ways On How To Flirt With A Woman Effectively<p>Flirting is viewed in many different ways. Some find flirting as a way to show someone you're attracted to them, some see flirting as seducing, while others see it as romance, etc.</p><p>Flirting is done remotely with sign language and up close with words, often also to know if a woman is attracted to a guy or not.</p><p>In this article, I'll provide flirting tips you can use to find out if the woman is open to conversation and maybe more.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir_r4TYxWk3Y24xANTNVHIsY-XY4GntUsMCi876KDUS6L3F58jk6XIAJlAWMXBuvHlDAhyphenhyphenv5TNiqAvasl4oEX4U6dvch-0Tk-v-cc5bUsIwMMRL8pHR3Ean9hhPEWt7u6o2mdARoh3nT-I/s596/dfs.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="351" data-original-width="596" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir_r4TYxWk3Y24xANTNVHIsY-XY4GntUsMCi876KDUS6L3F58jk6XIAJlAWMXBuvHlDAhyphenhyphenv5TNiqAvasl4oEX4U6dvch-0Tk-v-cc5bUsIwMMRL8pHR3Ean9hhPEWt7u6o2mdARoh3nT-I/s16000/dfs.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>Explore more with us!</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">The three tips for remote flirting</h4><p>Suppose you see a nice woman ten meters away from you.</p><p>She looks very nice and has a beautiful smile.</p><p>You want to know if she's attracted, so first start flirting remotely to see if she's up for a conversation at all.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>1. Smile</b></p><p>This one speaks the most for itself. If you smile and the woman smiles back, she will not reject you right away and this is an invitation to speak to her.</p><p>If you want to break the ice, smiling is always a good plan anyway.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Make playful gestures</b></p><p>When I say playful gestures I mean gestures like sticking out your tongue, wiping dust off your shoulder, etc.</p><p>Of course, you do this with not much seriousness on your face so that she knows that you are joking.</p><p>If she is open to a conversation she will gesture or laugh back.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Look sexy</b></p><p>Methods vary, I don't usually use this for remote flirting but I know men who use it successfully.</p><p>How do you look at someone sexy:</p><p>Open your eyelid just a little.</p><p>Have a little humble smile</p><p>Have confident body language</p><p>Furthermore, I can only recommend that you practice it in front of the mirror so that you can be sure that you don't look like you are trying hard when you start flirting with a woman like that.</p><p>If she starts to look back a lot or starts to smile or the like, then she is open to a conversation.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">Flirting tips during the conversation</h4><p>In a conversation, it is useful to know whether a woman is attracted to you or not.</p><p>The big difference is that if you are close to her, the woman can understand you more and it can lead to you touching her.</p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">The following are exactly the ways you can find out if she is interested in you.</h4><p><br /></p><p><b>1. Touch</b></p><p>Personally, this is my most common way to see if a woman is attracted to me.</p><p>It works very simply, you touch the woman a lot and if she doesn't pull herself away from your touches or touches back a lot then she is attracted to you.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Isolate her</b></p><p>If she's attracted to you, it's helpful for you to isolate her at some point.</p><p>Isolating a woman is when you take her away from her group of friends to, say, a couch or the smoking area.</p><p>This is useful to see if she is interested in you and to make the conversation more romantic.</p><p>You do this simply by saying that you are tired and want to sit down and ask her to come along.</p><p>There are many other ways to isolate a woman, but I will not go into that now.</p><p>If a woman is not interested in you, she will not just go with you anyway, so this is a good test to see if the women are attracted to you.</p><p>In addition, women are often less romantic when their girlfriends are there, so the isolation is therefore also useful for the seduction</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Qualify her</b></p><p>Ask a qualifying question.</p><p>If you like adventurous women then ask her if she is adventurous. If she is, then qualify her.</p><p>You can ask this question from a point of view that you are figuring out whether she meets your standards or not.</p><p>Of course, if she's attracted to you, she'll want to do her best to prove herself, and if she's not attracted to you, she won't do her best to make herself look adventurous, for example.</p><p><br /></p><div style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #424242; font-family: "Open Sans", verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; margin: 30px 0px;"></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-50825548893680944322021-01-16T13:50:00.003+03:002021-01-16T13:50:21.557+03:006 Ways To Gain Confidence In Approaching Women<p>Have you ever tried to approach a woman with no success. Or have you never tried to approach a woman before? This always happens when you have less confidence in yourself. Today we want to teach you on how you can gain confidence in approaching women fast.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEYSRw2K4i1O2nZuNDkdfzGSl9PKQGT9BBHbU2ceI9VFyX9bDzu43NqODebtXxGl2nV4XvUAxvNhElcyd_00YB_sREENy0m7pqh6q1eC3ik2GvvvKAeuRj4HmlakyNmi0ZpLlC4fqlZhXH/s1000/bn.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="627" data-original-width="1000" height="402" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEYSRw2K4i1O2nZuNDkdfzGSl9PKQGT9BBHbU2ceI9VFyX9bDzu43NqODebtXxGl2nV4XvUAxvNhElcyd_00YB_sREENy0m7pqh6q1eC3ik2GvvvKAeuRj4HmlakyNmi0ZpLlC4fqlZhXH/w640-h402/bn.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p>The following are procedures you can follow to increase your general confidence with women.</p><p><b>1. Your appearance</b></p><p>Many people expect their appearance to be one of the most important parts of self-confidence. On the one hand, this is a fact and on the other, it is absolutely not true.</p><p>Self-confidence is not about how you look, you can't change that. Self-confidence is about conducting yourself in the right way to radiate confidence in yourself.</p><p>You can get in touch with someone else more easily this way and have fewer social difficulties. Your appearance can therefore best be replaced by 'your attitude'. The right attitude is of optimal importance in order to radiate confidence in yourself and the way in which you show what you are really worth.</p><p>You can change your attitude in an easy way. I would like to list a few tips:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Keep your back straight</li><li>Look straight ahead</li><li>Keep your hands next to your body</li><li>Sit in a relaxed manner</li><li>Speak with your hands.</li></ul><p></p><p>The above tips are the absolute foundation when it comes to adjusting your posture. Try to apply these tips and get more out of the correct posture in this way.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>2. Exercise for confidence</b></p><p>I am often asked how you can gain confidence in a quick and easy way. In order to gain self-confidence in the very short term, it is wise to start with sports.</p><p>Sport gives you great results quickly so that you immediately get used to a sense of self-confidence and can easily regain your self-esteem.</p><p>Self-confidence is extremely beneficial and is a way in which you can prove yourself in the right way on several fronts.</p><p>Does exercising make you tired? Try not to give up too quickly at that point. Sports is precisely a way in which you produce certain hormones that can make you feel wonderful.</p><p>The body actually automatically rewards you for the effort you have just put in and lets you feel comfortable in your own skin.</p><p><b>Tip:</b> Run half an hour before you go to work or start the study. In this way you start much fresher, sharper and you seem to be able to handle everything. You will soon be found nicer and more attractive. From this moment on it will be much easier to get in touch with your colleagues or fellow students!</p><p><br /></p><p><b>3. Feeling stronger on the inside</b></p><p>It won't be easy to start feeling stronger on the inside. In the long term, however, it is still necessary that you no longer need these tips to really feel good about yourself.</p><p>By feeling stronger on the inside, it becomes easier to feel comfortable in your skin for a long time and to face the world with ease.</p><p>Do not be stimulated by compliments or moods. It is necessary to feel comfortable in your own skin for a long time and to feel comfortable at all times.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>4. Compliment for more success</b></p><p>Giving compliments is an excellent way to feel better about yourself. Giving compliments makes it easier to get your own value back. By giving compliments you show that you have a lot of self-esteem. You show that you dare to put someone on a pedestal and are not afraid of coming across as something less yourself.</p><p>Try to dose the compliments as much as possible and under no circumstances expect a compliment in return. There are many people who hardly or never compliment and are absolutely not used to this. When you compliment them, they don't even think about complimenting you.</p><p>So don't let your feelings be determined by receiving compliments from someone else. In this way, it is very difficult to become happy and you will be disappointed at many different times.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>5. Be grateful for who you are</b></p><p>Your personality cannot be changed just like that. Then try to be grateful for who you are. Do you accept yourself? Then it becomes a lot easier to be accepted by your environment and you will be much less disappointed.</p><p>Self-confidence in this way comes from the inside and can hardly be affected by your environment. It is precisely by getting stronger inside and being grateful for who you are, it becomes easier to be happy.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>6. Make yourself heard</b></p><p>How can you make yourself heard? Any day, any time! When you tell stories, ask questions, and raise awareness, it becomes easier for someone else to respect you.</p><p>In many cases, it does not even matter whether you come across as negative or positive, in the future, you will automatically learn which behavior suits you. However, to develop more self-confidence, I recommend asking at least 4 times as many stories and 4 times as many questions.</p><p>In this way, you force yourself to really let yourself be heard. There will be a response and you will notice that you are really adding something.</p><p>In this article, I have provided a number of tips that can help you enormously in developing and maintaining self-confidence in the future. Remember the tips one by one to apply them in practice and to help you when things are not going so well.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-64535152881690658702021-01-13T19:29:00.000+03:002021-01-13T19:29:02.406+03:00How To Get Rid of That Inner Voice of DoubtDo you ever talk yourself out of doing something? For example, approaching a woman who you are interested in? You know, it's like you have that little voice of doubt that you just can't silence, that talks you out of doing things by instilling fear and doubt?<br />
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Well what kind of a difference would it make in your dating life if you could turn that voice off for good? If you think that this sounds too good to be true, you're about to find out just how easy it is to turn off your voice of inner fear and doubt...[Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/how-to-recover-from-breakup.html">How To Recover From A Breakup</a>]<br />
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<b>First, Know Your Enemy</b><br />
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Before you can have any hope of getting rid of "negative self-talk," you have to learn how to stop it dead in its tracks. Most people are controlled by the influence of their inner voice because they feel that it is on autopilot and never stop to think about whether or not they have the choice to turn it off.<br />
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But you can defeat this enemy much easier once you develop the habit of recognizing it and interrupting it. The best way to do this is to carry around a note card in your pocket and write down one of your common negative phrases on it.<br />
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For instance, if you find yourself saying: "I'm a nobody", write this phrase down on the note card and draw a line through it. Then, write something beneath the phrase like: "I'm a great catch." Carry this note card with you, and every time you find yourself saying: "I'm a nobody," take the card out and make a hash mark on the card. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/what-really-turns-women-on.html">What Turn On Women</a>]<br />
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Do this every day for a month, and you'll find that the hash marks get fewer and fewer as time goes by.<br />
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<b>Second, Plant Good Seeds</b><br />
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Overcoming negative self-talk can only be permanently accomplished when you find a replacement for your negative phrases. As you are getting yourself into the habit of interrupting your negative self talk, make it a point to reaffirm something positive to yourself, and do it more than once.<br />
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For example, instead of simply taking out the card and making the hash mark, read the phrase: "I'm a great catch," once or twice, and say it in your mind (or out loud if possible), several more times after putting the card away.<br />
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While this might sound trivial, it's important to understand that your negative self talk was formed in the same manner. Somewhere in your past, someone might have told you that you were a "nobody." Over years and years of continuous repetition, this phrase became "imprinted" in your brain.<br />
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This is actually the way that beliefs and perceptions are formed within the subconscious mind. The good news is that if they can be formed this way, they can also be altered.<br />
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<b>Self-Talk Becomes Self-Image</b><br />
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Many people are completely unaware of the fact that the way they talk to themselves is what determines their perception of themselves. This perception is also known as your self-image, and it has a powerful influence over your beliefs about what you are capable of and what you deserve.<br />
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What you'll find is that when you're inner voice changes from negative to positive, your image and perception of your own value will change with it. As this happens, your outer behaviors will automatically begin to manifest this change. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/ways-to-control-your-emotions-around.html">Ways To Control Emotion Around Women</a>]<br />
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In other words, instead of having to act confident and assertive, it will be a natural part of your body language, tone of voice, posture and other exterior behaviors.<br />
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As you might guessp, this will dramatically increase your chances at making a good impression on women you meet. It will also help you to make use of the most powerful psychological tactics for attracting women.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-61491556479867052162021-01-07T12:56:00.000+03:002021-01-13T19:32:41.652+03:00How To Addict A Woman With Your LoveHave you ever had an addiction?<br />
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I'm not talking about drugs. I'm talking about anything that just made you feel like you HAD to have it. That you had to have it RIGHT NOW. It could have been a food, or even something that you wanted to buy.<br />
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Did you know those feelings were actually because of a physiological response in your body? It's called an "addictive rush," and advertising experts have mastered the art of creating this rush to make people want to buy stuff. They know what colors, words, sounds and shapes will cause changes in your hormones and your nervous system. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/how-to-start-easy-conversation-with.html">How To Start A Conversation</a>]<br />
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Pretty powerful right?<br />
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Well, what if you could create this addictive rush in women? I'm guessing that might work for you, so let's get right into it...<br />
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<b>Connecting the Dots</b><br />
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When it comes to giving a woman an addictive rush, the magic is all in your touch. Women are much more sensitive to touch than men are, and you can create a powerful emotional response in a woman through touch.<br />
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The key is getting her to associate your touch with a positive emotional experience, which is not as hard as you might think. Advertisers have been doing this for years using something called "anchors."<br />
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Anchoring is the association of two unrelated things in order to create connections between those two things in the mind. For example, sports car manufacturers often create commercials where a man is driving their car with a hot chick in the seat next to him.<br />
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Beauty product manufacturers create commercials where the woman using their product is with a handsome man. Jewelry companies associate their product with a happy courtship; beer companies associate their product with sports or hot women.[Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/5-easy-ways-to-get-past-her-defenses.html">How To Pass Her Defence</a>]<br />
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What do these things have to do with one another?<br />
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Nothing, but once the associations are created in the mind, they set up a very real emotional experience which cause a "buying rush." Now I don't know about you, but if companies spending billions of dollars to market this stuff have found that anchoring works, I think it's a safe bet that it does.<br />
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So how can you use this to give a woman an addictive rush? Easy, you connect your touch or your attention to something which she already considers to be positive and exciting...<br />
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<b>How to Create Anchors</b><br />
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The next time that you're with your woman and you're talking about something that excites her, give her a light brush on the hand. Repeat this motion whenever you're talking about something that she seems to think is exciting...it can even be something sensual.<br />
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(just make sure that the touch is natural, or she'll wonder what you're up to).<br />
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This might sound simple, but you can even do it as if you're trying to get her attention. You can even grab her hand lightly for a second. Do this enough, and her subconscious mind will start making the connection between the excitement and your touch. After a while, you can use your words to create anchors.[Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/6-big-secrets-to-online-dating.html">Secrets Of Dating Online</a>]<br />
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For example, after she's comfortable with you touching her on the hand and she seems to be responding positively, start associating that touch with something that you say to her, like: "You're fun."<br />
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Again, very simple, but with enough practice it will get to where you can say this to her over the phone or in a text and create a positive emotional experience with just your words. Once you master this, you can start associating more intimate touches such as hugs or kisses with positive emotions.<br />
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So start out with the simple brush on the hand, and don't try to get too complicated.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-4022901125266670252021-01-01T21:11:00.000+03:002021-01-13T19:27:05.402+03:00Top 5 Reasons Why Women Reject MenHave you ever been rejected by a woman and been absolutely clueless as to why? You know how it is, you feel that you have something good going and suddenly she either stops returning your calls or never even gives you her number to start with.<br />
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If you're tired of this then you're ready to find out why this happens so that you can start correcting course right away...<br />
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We'll start with the least common reasons and move up to the most common reason:<br />
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1) Bad Hygiene<br />
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This might seem too obvious to state, but women have different standards when it comes to hygiene. We just think that we need to be dressed and have our hair combed. But for women, the standards are much higher and they don't like: bad breath, unkempt facial hair (esp. eyebrows), shabby shoes, belts that don't match shoes, stains on your shirt or pants.<br />
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Before you go out (anywhere), check yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you would present yourself to a new employer the way that you're dressed. If you wouldn't, then don't fool yourself into thinking that a woman is going to hold herself to a lower standard than a prospective employer would. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/how-to-handle-tests-from-women.html">How to handle tests from women</a>]<br />
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2) Egotistical<br />
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There's a big difference between being confident and being egotistical, and if you don't know the difference, you're dating life will suffer. Egotistical is talking excessively about your possessions, your income, your social status and other things that show her that your personality isn't interesting enough to impress her.<br />
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Also, being a poor listener and waiting for your turn to talk, or interrupting, is a sure sign of being self-absorbed. Being confident will eliminate the need to impress people (even women you are interested in) because you'll become your own standard for measuring your self-worth.<br />
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But attempting to "impress" other people in order to boost your ego is a clear sign of weakness and insecurity.<br />
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3) Ex-Bashing<br />
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Everyone has had bad relationships, but keep them to yourself or you might not attract anything but insecure women who are okay with you bashing your ex. If you bash your ex, you're telling your new date one of two things: that you have a poor choice in relationships, or that you take only the negatives in a relationship.<br />
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Bashing an ex also tells them that you still have emotional baggage...and frankly, if you're ex-bashing then you do have emotional baggage. Deal with this yourself, but don't drag her into it. It's not her business and it's not her problem.<br />
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Also, remember that a mature woman is going to withhold judgment until she hears both sides of the story.<br />
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4) Indecisiveness<br />
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Women don't want to feel that they have to lead the interaction and make all of the decisions. Take the lead when it comes to your interactions with women. Trust me, they'll tell you if there's something that they don't like. Women can deal with a man who knows what he wants, and they are much more forgiving of this than indecisiveness.<br />
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So none of the "We can do whatever you want". Be a man and make those decisions yourself.<br />
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5) Neediness<br />
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This is the number one reason why women reject men, and the subject is enough to cover a whole post. For now, understand that over-committing your interest to a woman too early, rearranging your life around her, calling too much, agreeing with everything that she says, letting her make all the decisions or requiring her "permission" to pursue a woman are all needy behaviors.<br />
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One thing which you're better off accepting is that women are repulsed by clingy, insecure men. Most of the time, these behaviors are masked as "nice guy" behaviors, and they are death to your dating life.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-38277906900442207092020-12-31T21:07:00.000+03:002021-01-23T12:42:15.046+03:00Important Body Language Tips On WomenDo you sometimes feel like women are speaking a completely different language than you are? If so, you are right! Sociologists tell us that nearly 90% of our communication is non-verbal....meaning body language is responsible for the overwhelming majority of our communication.<br />
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This means that if you don't learn to "speak" body language, you might be almost as crippled in your communication with women as someone who can't hear. Wow! Looks like we'd better get into some of the crucial tips for mastering the art of body language...<br />
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<b>First, Become Aware of Your Body</b><br />
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The first thing to do is to become more aware of what you're doing with your body language when you're communicating with people (both men and women). If you think you know, you're wrong. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/how-to-get-younger-women-interested.html">How to get young women like you</a>]<br />
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Most of us aren't aware of our own body language the same way that a fish isn't aware of water. You can start by paying attention to what you are doing with your hands when you're standing still or when you're talking to someone.<br />
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Are you nervously fidgeting with something, rubbing the back of your neck, crossing your arms when talking, checking your cell phone or something else that shows you are preoccupied?<br />
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If so, women don't look at this and think: "He's just nervous." They'll take it as a sign of disinterest or, even worse, insecurity.<br />
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And what about the position of your body as you are talking to someone. Do you turn away slightly as you're talking to a woman? You might be doing this because you're nervous...but again, she won't read it that way. This is because when you're speaking to a woman, she is looking for one thing more than anything else...<br />
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<b>Body Language is About Presence</b><br />
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Do you know what women are looking for more than anything when they are reading your body language? Presence. They want to know that you are "there" with them. For most men, the concept of presence is completely foreign, but for women, it's the deciding factor in whether or not a man is worth pursuing.<br />
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Have you even been around someone how was "emotionally absent" or withdrawn? How about when you were actually speaking to them? Maybe you knew this because they were looking at their cell phone, or fumbling with their keys or something else that shows they are removed from the interaction.<br />
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But remember that women are more intuitive than we are and they're more sensitive to whether or not a man is "present" to the moment, or if he is elsewhere. So presence is not something that you can fake, you have to learn to actually be in the moment with her. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/how-to-convince-woman-that-you-are-good.html">How to convince a woman that you are the man</a>]<br />
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Here are some things that will help:<br />
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1) Look Her in The Eye<br />
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Just don't stare her down. This does more than tell her that you are present with her, it helps you to actually become present. It will also keep you from staring at her breasts or something else on her body.<br />
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2) Listen to Her<br />
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There's more to this than most people realize. Listening to her means turning off your "inner dialogue" and listening without thinking about what you're going to say next, analyzing what she's saying or (the big momentum killer) waiting for your turn to talk.<br />
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3) Light Touches<br />
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Just be sure that these are non-threatening and playful at first. You can even start by touching one of her possessions like a ring, her cell phone, or something that she is wearing. This shows that you are comfortable with being near her and confident.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-38968365963380137572020-12-29T21:04:00.000+03:002021-01-13T19:26:02.148+03:00How to Recover From a BreakupHave you ever had your heart broken?<br />
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If not, you're either the most fortunate person on the planet or you haven't really lived. Everyone at some point has been through a bad break up, and they can be really hard to recover from. But since you have to get on with your life and continue your search for the right woman, what can you do to make a healthy recovery from a breakup? [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/top-5-reasons-why-women-reject-men.html">Top reasons why women reject men</a>]<br />
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While it can sometimes feel like the end of the world and you might think that you'll "never love that way again," there is a way that you can recover and get on with your life...and sooner than you think...<br />
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So, Who Died?<br />
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Are you treating your break up like a mourning period for the death of someone you loved? If so, the first thing to ask yourself is if a "mourning period," is really the best way to recover.<br />
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The majority of people spend weeks, or even months, after break ups without dating anyone or even considering a relationship at all. The problem with following this pattern is that the majority of people are not very successful in their relationships (just look at the divorce rate or how few people are happily married).<br />
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So unless she died, there's no reason to mourn. Get on with your life and get back in the game. If you're not ready to get serious, then don't. But you never know what you might miss out on simply because you are waiting for the "right time," or because you're having a mourning period. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/why-women-lose-interest-in-nice-guys.html">Why women loose interest on nice guys</a>]<br />
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You know, Martin Luther King once said "There is never a wrong time to do the right thing."<br />
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Billions of people have gone to the grave with their greatest dreams still in their imagination because they<br />
waited for the "right time." If you spend too much time mourning your past relationship, you might just miss out on your chances at something amazing.<br />
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But what do you do if your emotion is so bad you can't move on?<br />
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Get Outside of Yourself<br />
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The best way to snap yourself out of emotional pain is to help someone else who is less fortunate than you are. No, this does not mean that you have to turn into Mother Theresa or Robin Hood. But there is ALWAYS someone who is suffering more than you are and the more aware you are of their pain, the less consumed you'll be by yours.<br />
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A break up may not be the end of the world...but it sure does feel that way and the more you sit in the dark and lick your wounds, the worse it's going to get. If you want to get over your pain, get outside of yourself, get over yourself and you'll find a strength and motivation that you were completely unaware of.<br />
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This isn't just for the sake of surviving a break up. Making a contribution to less fortunate people will help you to become more compassionate, which will make a big difference in how you relate to women. [Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/5-easy-ways-to-get-past-her-defenses.html">Ways to penetrate her defense</a>]<br />
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If you're unsure how to get started on this, start doing some searching about non-for profit organizations or homeless shelters in your area. If this is too much for you, start by finding a friend of yours that needs your help with something and offer your your time to them. The personal benefit will be well worth it.<br />
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Finally, Put a High Value On Yourself<br />
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Most of the time, the pain of a break up comes from the feeling that you lost something of great value. Instead of taking on this mindset, put a high value on yourself and tell yourself that she lost out on something great, and that some woman out there will be very lucky to have you.<br />
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This alone will make the break up much less humiliating and painful.<br />
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I hope this helps if you're in the stage of transition. Just be sure to take action with what you just learned.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-765759734522302314.post-15029300354396716312020-12-29T21:01:00.000+03:002021-01-13T19:25:37.939+03:00How To Tell If She Is InterestedWhile trying to search for a woman, you might sometimes realise that you are chasing a wrong woman who does not even like you. And sadly you realise this after weeks of persuing and seducing her with all your skills and techniques.<br />
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Then finally you realise that you had wasted your time and energy right? Okay, well, why not you get to know the signals wherere if she's interested or not?<br />
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Not All Women Are the Same<br />
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So, first it's important to understand that only about 1% of the general population (men and women alike) know what they really want in a relationship. So you are always going to be getting confusing signals from women, and some women will lose interest the moment that they realize they "have you where they want you."<br />
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We'll be talking more about how to keep this from happening in later emails. But it's important that you understand what you are up against. Other than that, what you are about to discover is that most "interest indications" are communicated through a woman's body language.[Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/what-really-turns-women-on.html">Things that turn on a woman instantly</a>]<br />
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Here are three things to look for...<br />
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<b>1. Preening</b><br />
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This is when a woman does one of the following: combs her hair back over her ear, rubs or scratches herself on the neck or collar bone, strokes her wrists or the top of her hand or sometimes her cheek.<br />
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Body language experts tell us that these are the subconscious indications that a woman might be attracted. Women don't realize that they are doing this, and that's a good thing. This means that they can't hide their interest or fake it.<br />
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All you have to do is know what to look for.<br />
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<b>2. Pupil Dilation</b><br />
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You might have heard that the eyes are the windows of the soul, and this is certainly true when it comes to reading a person's genuine desires. This not just an enormous indicator interest, it also tells you whether or not a woman is aroused sexually. Of course, it's difficult to see this in some women or in some settings.<br />
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But if you can get close enough (or if you have really good eyes), pupil dilation almost always guarantees that you have a shot.<br />
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This physical reaction is so important when it comes to determining a person's interest that marketing and advertising experts have conducted millions of dollars worth of research to determine which sounds, words, symbols, colors and tastes spur this response in people.[Read: <a href="http://seductionpundit.blogspot.com/2016/09/powerful-psychological-tactics-for.html">The psychology used to attract beautiful women</a>]<br />
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<b>3. A Second Glance</b><br />
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This one is perfect if you are trying to determine the interest of a woman you just saw and have not yet met. Wait for her to look over at you (she very likely will at least once).<br />
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When she does, don't smile or wave or give any indication of interest. Just look back at her until she looks away (it will only be a few seconds...at most).<br />
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If she looks away and towards the floor, or even to the side, look down at your watch...wait 45 seconds, and see if she looks back at you before the 45 seconds is up. If she does, she's probably at least interested in being approached.<br />
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One word of caution, you MUST act fast once you see these things! Remember, for women, timing is everything. If you miss your cue and don't make a move, her interest will be gone and you might never get it back.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0