Many men will have experienced it at some point: you meet a nice woman, you seem to have a click with her, and after some time it comes to a relationship. You couldn't have been happier at the beginning of your relationship, and you may well see a future ahead of you with this woman. And then the problems suddenly arise.
She may suddenly become unreasonably jealous when you talk to another woman for a moment. Maybe she's suddenly negative about everything you do. Or maybe she turns out to be incredibly selfish and narcissistic, so she doesn't consider you at all once she brings you in. Whatever the case, at least it is clear that you are dealing with an incompatible or a bad woman.
What exactly do I mean by a bad wife?
A bad wife, of course, sounds like something very negative, and it is, but it also sounds pretty vague. When I talk about bad women, what exactly do I mean by that? What exactly is the definition of a wrong woman? Before I continue with the rest of this article, I'll try to answer that question first.
There is, of course, no set definition for a “wrong wife”, as the word “wrong” can mean quite a lot. I will therefore explain what I mean by it in this article. When I talk about a bad woman I am talking about a woman with such nasty traits that it is impossible to have a healthy relationship with that woman. Often these women are very manipulative.
This can of course be for various reasons, but very often there is a serious personality disorder. For example, a woman may be unhealthily selfish, jealous, or narcissistic because something is just not right in her head. That is of course very annoying for her, but that does not mean that you should start a relationship with such a woman.
A pity relationship is always a bad relationship.
If you are dealing with such a woman, then you better not start a relationship or end the relationship. If you don't want to, you can give her the option to seek professional help from a psychologist to work on her problems
You now sort of understand what I mean by a bad woman, and you also understand that it is impossible to maintain a relationship with such a woman. What you don't know yet is how to spot these types of women to make sure there's no other problem involved. I will help you with that in the rest of this article.
How do I recognize a wrong woman? 3 signals
Now that you know what bad women are, you probably want to know exactly how to spot them. Are there certain signs that warn you when you are dealing with a wrong woman or should you just guess? Let me tell you: those signals are certainly there.
I will now explain to you what those signals are, and how you recognize them. By paying close attention to see these signs, you can determine whether it is a good idea to go after this woman or continue your relationship. In this article I will focus on and briefly discuss the following common signs :
Signal 1: She behaves differently with you than with others
As I said before, there are many different types of bad women. What I also mentioned, however, is that bad women are usually very manipulative. They will continuously try to influence you and your behavior to get what they want. This is a characteristic that you can often recognize quite quickly if you know what to look out for.
If you are dealing with a manipulative woman, she will adapt her behavior to the situation to get what she wants. Therefore, she will behave differently in some people than in others. She can achieve things in different ways with different people. You can use this to discover her manipulative nature early on.
If a woman is manipulative, she will behave very differently to you than to others. She may be very serious with you and appear very intelligent, but she is very giggly with her friends and pretends to be stupid. If she adapts her behavior to a great extent to the different people she associates with, it is a sign that she can be manipulative.
Manipulative people often don't even know who they really are anymore.
Please note that this must involve behavior that is very different. Almost everyone behaves differently depending on the social context. Small differences in her behavior are therefore usually not a bad signal. Only when the changes are very strong, so that you can actually say that she is acting like another person, should you start to worry.
Also, make sure that you are able to differentiate between a social situation and a work situation. These two can make a person behave totally different. For example, when she talks to her co-workers or her boss, it makes sense for her to be a little more serious and formal. Obviously, that is not a sign that she is manipulative.
Signal 2: She talks overly negatively about others
Another trait you see very often in bad women is being overly negative towards you. She is actually negative about everything you do, and because of this she completely destroys your self-confidence. If you want to know if she's going to behave like that towards you, it's good to see how she treats others.
For example, you can listen to how she talks about others. When she talks about other people in her life, is she just talking about all the negative sides of those people? Do you never actually hear her positive about anyone? Then there is a good chance that she will only be negative towards you in the future. In that case, you are dealing with a bad woman.
If she hates everyone, then you really won't be the exception.
Of course, you also have women who like to gossip or just talk about negative things. This does not always mean that they will also be negative towards you. If you want to check this, you can start a positive topic yourself. If she then turns this conversation into something negative, chances are that you are dealing with a bad woman.
I probably don't need to explain why you don't want a relationship with a woman like that. Of course, you mainly want to be happy in a relationship, and negativity does not exactly contribute to that. If someone keeps telling you that you are doing everything wrong, at some point you will start to believe it yourself. In addition, you will not really love someone who constantly tells you that you are doing everything wrong.
Signal 3: She has (almost) no old friends
Bad women are by definition very difficult to deal with. That is (partly) the reason that you do not want to have a relationship with such women. Not only her partners will notice this, but also other people around her, such as her circle of friends. By studying this circle of friends, you can often already see signs that a woman is bad.
A wrong woman will not be able to hold her friends for long. At some point, her friends will discover her nasty traits. In the end, they will likely decide they don't feel like doing that anymore. They disappear from her life, and the bad woman will have to look for new friends again.
If she can't keep her friends already, then a relationship isn't going to be a good idea at all.
This means that bad women often have almost only newer friends and hardly any old friends. After all, they got fed up with her a long time ago, so they don't want anything to do with her anymore. So her circle of friends can already be a clear warning that a woman is very difficult to get along with.
This too can of course also indicate other things. It doesn't necessarily mean you're dealing with a bad woman. For example, a woman may work a lot and therefore have less time to maintain friendships. Maybe it is just someone who is very shy and therefore difficult to make friends.
That's not to say this isn't a useful signal to watch out for. It does mean that you just have to keep thinking for yourself. Check to see if there are any other reasons why she has few friends from the past. If that is the case, then you basically don't have to worry.
How do I end a relationship with a bad woman?
Hopefully, I convinced you that a relationship with a bad woman is not a good idea and showed you how to recognize a wrong woman. But what if you find out that you are in a relationship with a bad woman? How do you put an end to that, and is that really the only option you have in such a case? I will try to answer that now.
Of course, I cannot give you some kind of step-by-step plan for ending a relationship with a bad woman. Every woman is different, so the best way to end a relationship will also vary from woman to woman.
What I can do is to give you some tips that are actually always relevant, and I will.
First of all, you should always end a relationship face-to-face, and not via text message, WhatsApp, or phone. Not only because you actually owe her this, but also because the chances are much greater that she will accept the situation. Second, you have to be clear with her. So don't beat around the bush, just tell her clearly that you don't want to see her anymore.
If you don't want to do this, as I said before, you have one more option. You can also ask her to seek psychological help for her problem and/or to go into relationship therapy with you. You can solve most problems this way, but she has to agree. If she doesn't want to, it's your only option to break up.
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